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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:36am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Tucker, I'm a graduate student in the Biomedical Engineering department at the University of Rochester.

I'm polyamorous, happy, and I strive to be interesting to myself and others. I hope to never stagnate in any way -- change is what keeps life interesting. No matter what happens, if you change me you will have bettered me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Over-thinking this question and being meta.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Evading tricky questions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My very slender build. I'm six feet tall, but at only about 140 lbs I'm very slim. I personally very much like my body, and don't tend to worry too much about it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This list is, of course, by no means complete.

Books: Catch-22, Lolita, The Ethical Slut, currently loving Infinite Jest.

Movies: Shame, 5 Centimeters per Second, The Grand Budapest Hotel, Perfect Blue, Donnie Darko, Miyazaki films, Pan's Labyrinth, Drive, etc., etc. I've taken a few film classes in school, and ended up getting very into film form and structure. Ask me about it!

Music: Absolutely everything. Neutral Milk Hotel, Vienna Teng, Emilie Autumn, The Mountain Goats, Evanescence, The Wailin' Jennies, Amanda Palmer/The Dresden Dolls, Dave Matthews, Cake, Gorillaz, Radiohead, Ingrid Michaelson, Les Miserables (the musical, so I'll put it here.)

I'm adding video games, as I think the games I play have something to say about me: Spec Ops: The Line, Dark Souls, Counter-Strike, Majora's Mask, DayZ, Braid, Shadow of the Colossus.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good art of various kinds (not just visual!)
A problem to solve
Rule breakers
People who don't mind the corny-ness of the first six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future of technology, RE: transhumanism. Exciting topic that I hope to be apart of one day!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
an empty essay. Fill me out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book for the most part, but one of the more private aspects of my life is BDSM. As a switch and a bisexual, there's nothing I won't try at least once -- and odds are, I already have (and I probably love it!) Feel free to ask me about it!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a pulse. Just message me if you think we have anything at all to talk about, I love to hold conversations. Messages on OkCupid do not carry inherent sexual or romantic tension to me -- I am perfectly happy to entertain a platonicly-oriented discussion with anyone.