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20 Boulder, CO Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:33pm
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Tucker, I study Biomedical Engineering at the University of Rochester.

I'm polyamorous, happy, and I strive to be interesting to myself and others. I hope to never stagnate in any way -- change is what keeps life interesting. No matter what happens, if you change me you will have bettered me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I'm studying my ass off! Love every minute of it. I also do research on developing membrane technologies, which is extremely engaging.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Math/Science -- Boring, I know, but it's true.

Video games -- I've always loved games of all kinds. Now-a-days it's a great way to kill time and enjoy myself. Sometimes it's much more meaningful than just that, as well.

Puzzles! I love working things out, solving difficult problems. This also means I adore LEGOs and such... I used to work with kids, teaching them about engineering using LEGOs. Tons of fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My very slender build. I'm a little over six feet tall, but at only about 140 lbs I'm very slim. I personally very much like my body, and don't tend to worry too much about it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This list is, of course, by no means complete.

Books: Catch-22, Lolita, The Ethical Slut, currently enjoying Infinite Jest.

Movies: Shame, 5 Centimeters per Second, Cape Fear, Perfect Blue, Donnie Darko, Pan's Labyrinth, etc., etc. I've taken a few film classes in school, and ended up getting very into film form and structure. Ask me about it!

Music: Absolutely everything. Neutral Milk Hotel, Vienna Teng, Emilie Autumn, The Mountain Goats, Evanescence, The Wailin' Jennies, Amanda Palmer/The Dresden Dolls, Dave Matthews, Cake, Gorillaz, Radiohead, Ingrid Michaelson, Les Miserables (the musical, so I'll put it here.)

I'm adding video games, as I think the games I play have something to say about me: Spec Ops: The Line, Dark Souls, Counter-Strike, Majora's Mask, DayZ, Braid, Shadow of the Colossus.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good art of various kinds (not just visual!)
A problem to solve

I want a seventh: people who don't mind the corny-ness of the previous six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future of technology, RE: transhumanism. Exciting topic that I hope to be apart of one day!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
an empty essay. Fill me out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book for the most part, but one of the more private aspects of my life has to do with BDSM relationships. As a switch and a bisexual, my kingdom of sexuality stretches as far as the eye can see, and I haven't come close to exploring it all yet. So far, no elephant graveyards! :)
You should message me if
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You have a pulse. Just message me, I love to talk about anything and everything. Messages on OkCupid do not carry inherent sexual or romantic tension to me -- I am perfectly happy to entertain a platonicly-oriented discussion with anyone.