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44 Raleigh, NC Woman


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  • Ages 42–52
  • Near me
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I tend to be a private person, but I want to share everything with the special person in my life. It's nice having one person at least who "gets" you, and as you well know, that is hard to find and takes a while to develop.

I was raised in the Midwest and tend to have typical midwestern values of having a good work ethic, valuing financial stability leaning towards conservatism, and being a bit stoic and reserved outwardly. However, I am a bleeding heart socially and believe strongly in having a safety net for "the least of these." I am warm, kind-hearted and passionate privately and will cuddle up next to you as much as you want me to.

I value my education and am proud of what I have accomplished. I am also proud of being direct in my speech - sometimes even shockingly so (just ask my boss). I am not always politically correct, though. You will know where you stand with me and where I stand on pretty much every subject that I care about.

It's important to me to like my job (I currently do) but I am not a workaholic...I know when to leave the office.

I love to read and don't tend to watch much TV.

I am divorced (amicably). I tend to get along better with men who have had significant long-term relationships (not necessarily married but marriage-like).
What I’m doing with my life
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I recently moved back to the Raleigh area after living in the DC area for the last five years. I still work in DC, I just work from home most of the time now. Ready to rediscover what has changed in Raleigh since I've been gone!
I’m really good at
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getting degrees, making brownies, finding interesting things to do, being patient, tolerant, and kind. And I'm a pretty good writer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, and that I have a relaxed personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like books and movies that make you think and challenge your ideas.

I like most types of food, but like many Midwesterners I wasn't raised to be a real foodie, so it is a surprise to my family how much ethnic food like Thai that I prefer these days. The one thing I have tried several times and just can't develop a liking for is sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
heat in the winter
The hope I will own a place at the beach someday
Sugar - in all its forms ;-)
At least a little quiet time each day - no TVs or phones.
The hope that you will send me a message and make my life even better!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything. I am the type who likes to think things through before speaking or acting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
often happy to be cuddled up on the couch eating pizza and watching a movie!