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32 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 26, 2014
Asian, Indian
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Hinduism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Hindi (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Urdu (Poorly), Gujarati (Okay)

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My self-summary
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im a proud trans woman of South Asian origin with roots in Chicago and Mumbai... Im a warm, intellectual and creative person... I'm a socially conscious person and I'm always thinking about and looking for ways to bring about radical social change... I'm terrible at sports but I love biking~ any one want to show me pretty trails near NY? I'm a sucker for nature~ roots, branches, leaves fascinate me with their endless bifurcations and entropy... I love traveling, and I've been on some epic journeys, but not nearly enough. I've been known to take long drives to the middle of nowhere just to be able to see the starry night sky (back when i lived in a city that was car friendly!)
What I’m doing with my life
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My job involves tech/new media work for a social justice organization, and i'm pretty passionate about it... On weekends I love good films, poetry, performance, visual art... I'm constantly working on new creative projects but i need to be better about finishing what i start!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning things quickly and retaining tons of useless and sometimes useful information of all types, but particularly when it comes to history, technology and languages... things I'm currently tryin to get good at: fiction writing, film editing, scrabble, graphic design, mountain biking...
The first things people usually notice about me
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physical: my tallness
social: i tend to get clumsy and shy at first especially around someone i feel attracted to... if i drop a drink on you please take it as a compliment :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Lately reading... Octavia Butler, Nalo Hopkinson, Nnedi Okorafor, Tananarive Due, Julia Serano, Kim Stanley Robinson

TV: Orphan Black, True Blood, Orange Is The New Black

Movies: Waaay too many to name... I'm all over netflix- here is what netflix thinks i like:

- Critically Acclaimed Dramas with a Strong Female Lead
- Visually-Striking Dark Sci-Fi & Fantasy
- Emotional Political Movies
- Dark Foreign Dramas
- Visually-striking Mind-bending Thrillers
- Animated Foreign Sci-Fi & Fantasy

Food: nothin like homecooked indian food... okra is my fave sabji

Music: Currently~ Asa, Balkan Beat Box, Nneka, Gaelle, DJ Cheb I Sabbah, Talvin Singh, Kailash Kher, A.R. Rehman, Midieval Punditz, Erykah Badu, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Wadali Brothers, Philip Glass, Clint Mansell, Ryuichi Sakamoto, Abida Parveen, Karsh Kale, Nitin Sahwney, Benga, Indian Ocean, Niraj Chag, Shami Pathia, Netsky, Bandish Projekt, lots of electronica on the drum and bass, dubstep, and loungy side of the spectrum... also lots of obscure 60s ska, calypso, high-life, rocksteady.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
damn near everything! Wikipedia is often my late night companion...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie or having dinner with a friend or two... I'm a lightweight when it comes to alcohol, but i'm down with the green stuff...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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perhaps its a bit narcissistic but I have a bias towards supertall and/or glasses-wearing people...
You should message me if
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if you are a creative, imaginative, thoughtful, respectful, cuddly person... the right mix of maturity and reckless abandon... someone who wants to be friends, date, or is looking for a life partner (but is communicative about what they seek or are open to)... i only date other people of color...