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32 Hainesport, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
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Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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The things I am.

1. Funny. Sometimes at least although I know when to be serious.
2. Intelligent.
3. Caring. I will go to great lengths for the people that mean most to me.
4. Respectful. That applies to everybody. I try and show everybody respect.
5. Thoughtful. I think of others frequently and that would be most evident with a girlfriend. The thoughtfulness is shown not only by my actions, but also my words.
6. Honest. I'm extremely honest. I will tell you exactly how I feel and what I'm thinking.
7. Confident. At least most of the time. I have my insecurities like everyone else out there.

There are many other things I am like good with kids, musical, fairly athletic etc, but we need to have something to discuss later.

What I'm looking for is a meaningful relationship with somebody that has the potential to lead to marriage. I want a woman that has many of the same qualities that I do. We must have some common interests, but should enjoy our own interests as well. Honesty is the biggest key for me in finding a woman. Yes intelligence, personality and attraction are also important, but honesty is the real key.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in finance. Hope to get my grad degree someday in order to further my career.
I’m really good at
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Golfing, math, being a good friend, being a good uncle, brother and son.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm usually rather quiet and reserved at first until I get to know you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter.

Music: Anything but rap and old school country.

Movies: The rock, Air Force One, Liar Liar, Dumb and Dumber, Wedding Crashers etc...
The six things I could never do without
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1. Family
2. Friends
3. Music
4. Food
5. Golf
6. Phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now outside of work I think about my family and friends. I also think of fun activities I would like to be doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a Friday night my activities can range from seeing a movie, going out to dinner, going bowling, making a trip to my parents, going to the casinos or just enjoying a night in amongst other things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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