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MlleFeuille

42 / F / bisexual / Single

Brooklyn, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am persistent, flamboyant, and literate.

My Self-Summary

MlleFeuille
I'm mostly friendly and outgoing, with strange little pockets of WASPy self-deprecation and shyness.
But my public demeanor can be in the drag queen range, especially when with my louder or more colorful cronies.
I'm very straightforward, a little odd, and tend to accept a lot of differences in my friends. Politically I'm very left of center and feminist.
I love glitter and dressing up - it's great if whomever I'm with likes those things too, whether they're wearing a snappy retro suit or something involving leather.

What I’m doing with my life

Having been caught up in the great economic adventure that's been such a delight for us all lately, I've been freelancing for my old employer (I'm a business researcher by training) but, like a lot of other people, I'm considering going back to grad school. The funny thing is, I think I might actually be excited about it too. Well, the idea of more student loans is scary, but you know, the whole knowledge thing is pretty cool.
Oh. and I want to learn to hula-hoop, too.

I’m really good at

I don't if I'm particularly good at it, but it turns out I really like dancing - I've only started taking dance classes in the last year or two. I love tribal belly dance. So I guess being willing to look fairly silly in a class with other people who frequently have a lifetime of dance training does bring me back to what I'm *definitely* good at: that persistence thing.

The first things people usually notice about me

Sarcasm and honesty. Not always the most attractive traits, and definitely ones that I've tried to rein in for the sake of tact and kindness.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Starting to list favorite books would probably get me into some sort of OCD frenzy, so let's just say I like to read a lot and prefer variety.
Music - what catches my ear: old LA punk; jazz standards (Sarah, Dinah, Billie, Nina); have heard some Malian music that's really amazing; have been listening to Hank Williams Sr and some bluegrass lately.
And Big Mama Thornton is stunning.
Wagner makes cranky though.
Movies - depends on the mood, doesn't it? I could make a case that "All the President's Men" is one of the great movies about democracy (plus it's about research geeks), but I did also pay full price to see "Die Hard 4".
Food - yep, it should be good. Pretty broad tastes, although I don't care for sea urchin much. I'm wary of people who are scared to taste something new.
I appreciate when people cook for me, and will happily do dishes!

The six things I could never do without

Library cards, rhinestones, good cheese, qualifiers, semi-colons, playing devil's advocate. And nice lingerie.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Nothing. Wool-gathering is kind of a major hobby; it seems to be necessary for me to maintain my equilibrium.

On a typical Friday night I am

At a burlesque show - one of the few things that can get me out on amateur night.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I think that "Die Hard 4" thing is pretty appalling, don't you?

You should message me if

You're calm and good at thinking things through before you react - I like people like this and we often get along well. I'm usually emotional first, then my brain kicks in. Hopefully this will seem charmingly passionate.
Poly, BDSM, queer or trans are all pluses.
If you're exclusively attracted to slender types, though, that's *so* not me - however if you like women with booty, well, not to be crass, but...yeah.