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46 M Culver City, CA

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  • Ages 26–58
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:59pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
When drinking
Judaism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Polyamorous, creative gentleman happily married to the wonderful "Vairumati."

If you make art of any kind, I'll want to see it, and will actually show up for your performance or read your book. I'll probably understand it and then tell you exactly why I thought it was awesome. On the other hand, if you identify primarily as a fun-haver, I also respect the crap out of that.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a writer with several books, none terribly lucrative but each a beauty in its way. One is about ancient philosophy; one is translation; one is poetry; and my new one is about ancient poetry. My PhD is in English & American lit, but then I learned Greek and got into Classics. My new field is psychology.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, acting, painting, making comics, and, um... listening to cute people articulate the myriad interlocking nuances of their inner lives.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My jawline is good & hard and I'm six feet tall. Supposedly I look younger than I am, which I guess is nice. I look Jewish because I am. There's always a book in my hand, and another eleven in my bag. My posture is good and I can dance, sort of.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Magician; Where the Wild Things Are; Alcina; Ikiru; Dreams; Wall-E; Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby; Melancholia; The Fuck It Point; Collapse.

MUSIC: Immortal Technique, Brian Eno, Alice Coltrane, Snocone, The Figments, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Roxy Music, Style Council, Dinosaur Jr, Rodrigo y Gabriela, Lou Reed, The Beatles, Hossam Ramzi, Sam and Dave, David Bowie, Parliament/Funkadelic, T. Rex, Nirvana, Jimi Hendrix, Beyoncé, The Who, Lily Allen, Queen, Lady Ga Ga, Tenacious D, Eminem, Ween, Frédéric Chopin, Laura Veirs, Quasi, Erroll Garner, Sarah Vaughan, Patti Smith, The Jam, The MC5

Now I'm going to list a lot of book titles, because I love reading. That doesn't mean I expect you to read this list. Just sharing, here.

BOOKS: The World As Will and Representation; Before the Dawn; The Ecotechnic Future; The End of Growth; The Forgiving Self; Becoming Attached; JFK and the Unspeakable: Why He Died and Why It Matters; The Cunning of History; Powerdown; The Party's Over: Oil, War, and the Fate of Industrial Societies; Crossing the Rubicon: The Decline of the American Empire at the End of the Age of Oil; Violence: Reflections on a National Epidemic; Man's Search for Meaning; Moby-Dick, or, The Whale; How the Mind Works; Grooming, Gossip, and the Origins of Language; Ghosts from the Nursery; Stop Walking on Eggshells; Why I Am Not A Christian; Why I Am Not A Muslim; Nothing Sacred; Of Kennedys and Kings; Heritage of Stone; The Neanderthal Enigma; The Periodic Kingdom; Why Big Fierce Animals Are Rare; Ritual and Mantra: Rules Without Meaning; Homeric Soundings; Schopenhauer and the Wild Years of Philosophy; Ludwig Wittgenstein: The Duty of Genius; Super Imperialism; Portrait of Delmore; Deep Politics and the Death of JFK; The Shadow of the Object; A Thousand Days: John F. Kennedy in the Whitehouse; Battling Wall Street; The Captive Mind; How Old is the Earth; In Search of the Indo-Europeans; The Idea of the Holy; Poets in their Youth; Derriere; Goodbye To All That; Bound and Gagged; Against Love; Stiffed: The Betrayal of the American Man; Mahatma Gandhi and His Apostles; The Computational Brain; Neurophilosophy; Eye and Brain; Children of the Ice Age; Enlightenment's Wake; Minima Moralia; The Jargon of Authenticity; Voyager: A Life of Hart Crane; Robert Lowell: A Life; The Interior Castle: A Life of Jean Stafford; Opening Up; The Ethical Slut; Dialectic of the Chinese Revolution (sounds stuffy, but it was so good! almost poetic); Candy Girl; Doubt's Boundless Sea; Edge of the Bed; Letters to Guns; Freud: A Life.

FOOD: Berries, catfish, risotto, shellfish, chowder, gumbo, authentic Mexican cuisine, fake Chinese cuisine, real Chinese cuisine, great heaps of organic leafy greens, root vegetables, fruit of every description except that durian stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Shakespeare, persimmons, coffee, a hovercraft with my initials on the rear view mirror in tiny silver lettering, and one of those blowguns they use in Borneo. I really love chowing down on piping-hot barbecued ribs but could, in fact, live without them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex; poetry; theater; kale; Peak Oil and climate change; that there is a world at all, rather than nothingness. Oh, and Schopenhauer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I voted for Nader in 2000. And in 1996.
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