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38 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:57am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Full figured
Christianity, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English, Italian (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Well, here I am back on OKCupid and I realized that I wrote my profile a long time ago and it wasn't really congruent with who I am right now, so I'm tweaking... I am still sweet, funny, generous, loving, and very intelligent. I still love God, laughter music, singing, and cooking. I am still open-minded and I still believe in (and long for) traditional romance. What has changed for me is clarity -- clarity about who I am, what I want in life, what I am looking for in a man, and who I get to be to have what I want.

When I think about the man for me, I know that he is fun, intelligent, Christian, deliberate in his actions, and leading with integrity. He should also be sexy, loving, generous, available (emotionally and technically!), a gentleman and a hopeFUL romantic. To say that he is successful is too subjective, but that he is focused on his goals and always moving to a higher level is imperative. I am an ambitious, responsible, and powerful woman, and I want a man who stands up to that with confidence knowing that we are equals in life even while we willingly embrace the traditions of our gender roles in our relationship and in our household.

Are you following me? If so, you are someone that I want to talk to. If you find this confusing or you think I have used too many "big words", you and I DEFINITELY are not a match! I am not looking for hookups, young boys (age is more than a number, actually), or "regular guys" that I have to mold into something. I am looking for one REAL MAN who knows what that means, handles his business, is responsible for his household, knows how to treat a woman, and can't wait to find her. I know in my heart that you are out there looking for me and that God will lead us to each other one way or another. SPEAK UP, take a chance every day, and come for me!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an opera singer so I travel a lot for work -- nationally and internationally -- and I love it! I am very passionate about what I do and thankful for the opportunity to make a living doing what I love. My life is a testament to the fact that if you believe in yourself, your gifts, and your ability to achieve, and subsequently apply yourself to the goals you have, you will inevitably live out your dreams. Believe it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, organizing, singing, fundraising, and thinking!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my infectious laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV Shows: Mad Men, Downton Abbey, True Blood, Breaking Bad, Frasier (yes, I watch the repeats!)
Books: The Lovely Bones, The Secret Life of Bees, The Color Purple, False Memory, Wuthering Heights, Pride and Prejudice
Food: Italian, Paleo, Mexican. I love imports.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, Computer, Phone, Music, Water, Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Goals, dreams, love, family, and music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Now why would I post my secrets on a free public dating site?
However... I will admit that I am addicted to answering these questions!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are over 35, and know you can handle me!

A little note to those without pictures:
I am not superficial about looks, but if you have not posted a picture you should look for other people who have not posted pictures. We picture posters are putting ourselves out there. Why should we engage with you if you are not willing to do the same?... Just sayin'.