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38 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:57am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Christianity, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English, Italian (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My friends describe me as sweet, funny, generous, loving, and very intelligent. What I can say about myself is that I love God, laughter, and music. I sing, I love to cook and entertain at home, and I am very open-minded. I believe in traditional roles in a relationship, and lifelong romance.

I am looking for someone who has a kind heart, is self-motivated, open-minded, grounded and growing in his spiritual life, and knows what it means to love and respect women. At the same time, someone who knows who he is as a man and feels empowered.

Ideally, I would like to find someone who shares my philosophies to a certain extent, but is also a free thinker with his own ideas. I won't say that he has to have a great sense of humor, because I am not looking for Martin Lawrence. Laughter comes naturally when two people share ideas. I do need romance, though, in the most traditional way. I want to be swept off of my feet and I want you to enjoy doing it!
What I’m doing with my life
I am an opera singer so I travel a lot for work -- nationally and internationally -- and I love it! I am very passionate about what I do and thankful for the opportunity to make a living doing what I love. My life is a testament to the fact that if you believe in yourself, your gifts, and your ability to achieve, and subsequently apply yourself to the goals you have, you will inevitably live out your dreams. Believe it!
I’m really good at
Cooking, organizing, singing, and thinking!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my infectious laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV Shows: Mad Men, Downton Abbey, True Blood, Breaking Bad, Frasier (yes, I watch the repeats!)
Books: The Lovely Bones, The Secret Life of Bees, The Color Purple, False Memory, Wuthering Heights, Pride and Prejudice
Food: Italian, Paleo, Mexican. I love imports.
The six things I could never do without
God, Computer, Phone, Music, Water, Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Goals, dreams, love, family, and music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Now why would I post my secrets on a free public dating site?
However... I will admit that I am addicted to answering these questions!
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are over 30, smart, kind, like to laugh, and willing to move slowly.
A little note to those without pictures:
I am not superficial about looks, but if you have not posted a picture you should look for other people who have not posted pictures. We picture posters are putting ourselves out there. Why should we engage with you if you are not willing to do the same?... Just sayin'.