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24 Jamaica Plain, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:56am
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My name is Matthew. I study violin at The New England Conservatory of Music.

I'm a musician by trade, but like to consider myself a jack of all trades. I don't let one singular thing define me.

ENTJ if you know/care what that means. Passionate about music and my endeavors in life. I'd like to think i'm a pretty well-rounded, versatile person. Take me to the opera, or lets go see a Red Sox game. :)

I'm pretty extraverted but sometimes you boys make me shy. Feel free to message me. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Just graduated in May of 2014, and will be starting my masters in the fall. Besides bettering myself as a person and quenching my curiosities in life, i spend the majority of my time trying to become a well established musician. Music is my joy and my passion. It opens up a whole new form of self expression well beyond those of words and actions. This is probably why i quit my first degree (biology) and focused on music. Besides practicing and doing school work, there's nothing more that I enjoy than being with close friends and family.

I also have some lofty work-out goals for this summer. If you are down for a run, let's go. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Baking. With a cook book haha. Maybe im not great at it, but i love to do it. love to make cakes, pastries, cookies. Mmmm. :)

Video Games, though i mainly play league of legends, I like to play some of the classics. (Super Mario, ect....)

Problem Solving.

Exploring. I love to camp, go on hikes, rock climbing. I grew up in rural Arizona! I love the outdoors. Exploring the New England Outdoors Scene has been great! I love to bike, kayak in the charles, and run!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea.

I tend to ignore (maybe i'm oblivious) standard social barriers and awkwardness. I tend to skip niceties and go for realness (this doesn't mean i don't have manners haha). I relish in exploring people's inhibitions and tearing down their false fronts. I tend to be forward and real with people. Sometimes this seems as though I'm just rude or insensitive. You'll find this the opposite about me. I'm honest and very caring. I just can't stand fakeness or flakiness. Be real with me, and maybe we'll have an awesome connection! :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm pretty versatile when it comes to books. There are of course the teenage must reads that most people enjoyed (even if they pretend not to ;)) Harry Potter...ect. Laurell K Hamilton is a fantastic writer. David Sedaris. John Grisham. Stephen King. Many more...Ask!! :)

I love a bunch of genres of movies. Dramas, Romcoms, Horror, Thrillers....

Off the top of my head.....
Dances with Wolves, City Slickers, the Devil Wears Prada, (actually ANYTHING Meryl Streep), The Mist, The Antichrist (maybe the weirdest movie I ever saw, brilliant though), Free Willy (when I was a kid I loved this movie), anything Disney! (Like Snow White, or The Lion King, not this new animated shit) I can't even remember all if the movies I've seen! Ask ;)

Bob's Burgers, Avatar Last Airbender, Greys Anatomy!!!!!!, Bones!!!!!!, 30 Rock, Ugly Betty, Modern Family, Family Guy, American Dad, Private Practice, Friends, Seinfeld, Breaking Bad, White Collar many, many more....There's also many shows that I haven't seen yet that I want to....what are some of your favorites that aren't listed here? :)

So my parents are pretty young....I grew up listening to 70s and 80s music and the then current top 40.

Current Top 40, Metallica ( S&M is amazing!!), Muse, Led Zeppelin, AC/DC, Ozzy, Beatles, Aerosmith, Korn, Linkin Park, Queen, Nirvana, Cafe Tacuba, Disturbed, Green Day, Michael Buble, a plethora of classical music. Ask me about more.

Anything Classical.

I'm a huge foodie. I love to eat. Italian, MEXICAN (you think you've had good Mexican food...go to Mexico, or Arizona!), The good ol' American Burger and Fries, Sushi, Seafood, again just ask :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the obvious (food, sleep, shelter, sex, family/friends)

Love. Not just romantic love. The kind of love that people share not just out of sexual attraction or a series of common personality traits. But something simpler and more complex at the same time.

Music. It's the key to my soul. I love all types of music sans country/rap. Preferably 70s/80s rock, a few 90s bands, some pop, and a plethora of classical. The top 40 makes its way onto my iPod.

Nature. We live on the most extraordinary phenomenon called earth. It's the most fascinating, versatile, dangerous, glorious things I can think of. I want to explore it all.

My violin. It's my other voice. I've found this awesome way to express myself, and I want to make a living doing so. Ask me about it. It's not as weird as you might think.

Thunderstorms. I'm from Tucson, Arizona. It's a desert. It doesn't rain. Enough said.

Sunsets. You know that time if day when the sun is about mid way between mid day and setting? When the indirect light shines trough the trees, and there's a faint golden glow in the air. One of my favorite places is in Arizona on my great grand mothers ranch looking out into the open desert, feeling the warm summer air and watching the sun fall into the mountains. Completely alone. No cars and traffic, no city, or sound pollution. Just the sound of the wind and my heart beating. It's glorious. Maybe I'll take you there someday :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people do the things they do. What makes us tick?

Philosophy of religion and sexuality. Evolution. Sociology.


Music. Math. Physics. Astronomy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends!!!!! I love to go out dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You think I'm cute and interesting. Let's be real, these profiles are basically a "who can market themselves the best contest". If you want to get to know me, ask me out :) i can guarantee we are all more interesting in person.