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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19-30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 5
Open relationship
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
High school
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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Okay ladies... take a deep breath, relax, and we'll get through this. It is, after all, only a dating site. Nothing to get too worked up over. lol

I am a Seattle area comic book artist in the middle of creating my own book series. I love to get out and have fun and enjoy the scenery, but also like to stay in occasionally to snuggle up to a good movie or book.

I like to be an open minded individual and keep things peaceful and calm during most tough situations, but tend to get angry when people use ignorance as an excuse not to learn and improve themselves. I love the variety in this world with people and everything in it. And so i have a hard time understanding why others don't feel the same.

Please also note that I am Polyamorous. I have a wonderful primary girlfriend with whom I am focusing my relationship energy on right now. (Please look up the difference between Polyamory and Polygamy.) I am not on here to debate Poly vs. Mono. I am not into this lifestyle to have a bunch of orgies with people. I believe in safe partners, mentally and physically. I do believe that we all each have something special to share with one another on so many different levels. And I will not deny a friendship with another man or woman just because a partner will be jealous of that time spent with someone. I am also Bi, but list myself as straight because my relationship-focus right now is just on women. I'm a bit burnt out when it comes to men these days. Long story for those willing to sit down and have a cup of coffee and get to know me better.

Health and body:
I've been working out and getting my body healthier. I'm not a complete health nut. And there is nothing wrong with anyone who is. Good for them. But for me I'm hitting a level of comfort with my health in both foods and exercise. So anyone who is up for hiking or getting outdoors, I'm definitly down. I have nothing against anyone being vegetarian, but please note I am mostly Paleo, so I'm all about meats, vegetables and fruits. Popcorn and soda are my cheat items when going to the movies.

Children: So after a week being on here I've found that a lot of questions have come up about me having kids. So here is what I am more than happy to say; I have three kids. Two daughters and one son. And they already have a Mother. I may not get along with her any more, but she is still their Mother. And I am not looking for someone to be another Mother to my children. But I do require that someone entering my life knows my children will be there as well. Even if it's just for a night every few weeks.

I am now snipped as well and not having any more kids. I feel it's responsible of me to have done this instead of expecting women to always be the ones who have to be on birth control. I believe sex should be safe and fun; safe mentally and physically.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am focusing on self-publishing my comic book and selling myartwork. The next few months I will be dedicating the most of my time into getting other artists and myself lined up to put out the first few sets of books I'm creating.

Video Games: I play Borderlands 2, World of Warcraft, Star Wars: Old Republic, Skyrim and Left 4 Dead. But I don't really play them enough to be very proficient because I have other things to work and think about. (artwork first and foremost! Gaming second!) I have a semi-addictive personality and while I like to game a lot, I chose not to let it be my "life" in order to get my art carear on track.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Illustrations, writing and design. Sports of all kinds. Giving massage. Listening and understanding and being there for someone special to me; special in relationship and naturally for my friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes, for some reason. lol. (please help me continue to figure that one out)

Actually, I would LOVE to hear what you first noticed about me on this site. Did you see my photo and click my page? Did you see our matching percentage? Was it random? Whether you're actually interested in me or not I would actually like to hear your thoughts. I feel like there are some pointers I would love to share with some of you ladies (not to get into your pants) but to help with profile photos, descriptions and such from a guys point of view when on a dating site. And by all means I'm more than happy to hear what you think would help me on my page as well.

Who says we can't all just make friends in the meantime and help each other out? :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, Star Trek and Star Wars novels. I'm currently reading the Star Trek: Titan series and finishing up Marie Frances' wonderful book, Nighthawk.

Movies: Favorite movie is Ghostbusters followed closely by the 5th Element, Spaceballs and The Matrix. I Like all genres of movies though. Recent repeated favorites include - Marvel's Avengers, Bad Boys II, Zoolander, Tropic Thunder, Dodgeball, Matrix 2, Spider-man 1 & 2, 300, all things Star Trek, Star Wars and Stargate!

TV: Massively into Dr. Who, Breaking Bad and The Walking Dead lately. Also catching up on How I Met Your Mother, Castle, Warehouse 13, Alphas, Lost Girl, Face Off and I bought the entire series of G.I. Joe, Transformers and ThunderCats on DVD and still have to sit and start watching them all.

Music: Metal, Rock, Techno, Symphonic Metal Opera. These include Metallica, Nirvana, Offspring, Skrillex, DeadMau5, Nightwish, Within Temptation, Hammerfall, Aqua, Toybox, Vengaboys, Scooter, Chemical Brothers and more!

Food: Pizza! I'm all for Italian, Greek, Mexican, Chinese and Japanese. I eat a lot of variety of foods, but I'm not always into every single dish. I'm not a spicey foods kind of guy, but I'll eat some mild hotwings! :) I'm also sensative to Vegetarians and Vegans. I have no need to push meat or other products onto people. But that being said, if you're uncomfortable with someone eating meats, i'm probably not a good person to hang out with.

Diet: I'm currently doing a somewhat Paleo diet; meats, vegetables, fruits.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My art
My passion
My drive
My heart
My soul
And most importantly, even as little as I see them; my children.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My artwork and stories and how they are designed and put together.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home drawing/sketching and designing.
On good days I'll get out of the house to watch a movie or go to my favorite cafe and relax.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Apparently my most private thing was bugging a lot of you. So I have now taken it off.
You should message me if
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*You want to talk to a geeky/nerdy fellow.
*Poly or not, if you're interested in either a nice casual dinner and drinks and relaxing conversation. Or even going for a hike and getting out for some exercise. Again, I don't require people to be Poly to be involved in my life.
*Even if you're just curious and want to chat. Give me a buzz. We don't know until we try, right?

*An extra tip for those who are tired of Poly people messaging them; if you have the word Poly or Polyamrous in your profile, telling people you're not into that lifestyle, then you're going to show up in the searches or keywords just for that reason alone. Just mention you're not into open relationships and most, if not all, Poly-seekers will be happy to skip past your profile.