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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:20pm
6′ 7″ (2.01m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a public accountant dreaming of living abroad (or at least traveling often), landing a position with a feminist non-profit (and/or maintaining vigorous activism), and sharing all the spice of life with someone special. I love asking people about their dreams and ambitions, and supporting them in their pursuit. I romanticize values like determination and burning passion, but am at home the most thinking about the future and making the most of leisure time.

Some of my -isms include striving to be an intersectional feminist ally (as best as a cis white male can hope to manage), zero growth-ism, environmentalism, anti-ableism, and egalitarianism. Politically I'm squarely in Paul Lafargue's corner. Philosophically, I'm in the absurdist tradition—especially humanity's struggle to reconcile the personal search for meaning and justice with the meaningless of the universe. I'm also a student of Epicureanism, which is a pretty hypocritical given public accounting's demands on one's personal life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to keep my options open with public accounting as long as I can until I pull the trigger on some place in particular. When not at work, I love exercise (weightlifting and racquetball), writing, and sleeping.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Turning enjoyment of rainy days into a religion
* Blowing through life in pursuit of a long-term goal
* Eating incredible quantities of food, and suppressing the urge
* Wishing I could have lived in the 80s, minus the lack of Internet and how depressingly stunted social justice progress would have been then compared to now
* Wondering why anything in life really has to end or fade away
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
* My height
* My softspokenness
* My voracious appetite
* My naive-sounding idealism
* My cynicism about the future (the whole climate change/overpopulation thing)
* That I'm always thinking about the future and never quite satisfied
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Moby-Dick (Captain Ahab is my #1 fictional character), James Clavell's Asian Saga, Romantic poetry (especially Keats), classical Chinese fiction & poetry, especially of the Three Kingdoms period and having to do with Cao Cao and his family

Movies: To Live and Die in L.A., Big Trouble in Little China, Purple Rain, For a Few Dollars More, Weekend at Bernie's, Once Upon a Time in the West, Amadeus, etc.

TV: Black Sails, TRON: Uprising, Boardwalk Empire, Avatar: The Last Airbender (not Korra...long story but I feel Bryke wholesale-undermined that series with terrible writing, especially for Korra herself)

Music: Breakbeat, Trap, Italodisco, 80s, Funk, Electro, New Wave, and mostly everything else

Food: I'm apparently a "supertaster" so I regrettably hate most vegetables and have the palate of a kid in a 90s pizza parlor. I could eat ice cream, pizza, candy, and Dr Pepper/other sodas for the rest of my life (sadly no longer a practical option)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* Rain
* Music
* Dreams to pursue
* Dear, close friends
* Downtime and sleeping
* Retrofuturistic chic
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* The 80s and all its cultural hallmarks, and how easy it is to get lost in that beautiful materialistic megalomania
* The absurdist dilemma of what a sentient being should do when they don't get what they want in life -- "count your blessings" or moving the goal posts feels like too much of a philosophical conceit
* How to totally capture an experience in art (visual or written), so that the audience can feel something as close as possible to the artist's vision
* Systematic inequality, resource starvation, overpopulation, climate change, and all the other approaching gloom
* What I'd do if I possessed time travel, and how best to go back in time and steer the world to a better course, and which civilization I'd pick
* The world of equality and diversity promised by Captain Planet, The Real Adventures of Jonny Quest, Reading Rainbow, other 90s educational shows etc. and how I still wish we'd all come of age into a future like they depicted
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out to eat; relaxing, watching something, night-driving to new music, maybe playing a video game; during busy season, this gets condensed to eating and sleeping
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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* According to all my friends and family, I'm not very good at being a typical male; I tend to be naturally softspoken and don't feel completely safe walking in an abandoned parking lot at night, if that makes sense, nor do I feel a need to maintain the illusion that I absolutely do feel safe
* I have delayed sleep phase disorder; my body clock is close enough to normal that I can get through a corporate America workweek all right (even in public accounting), but I'm definitely a night owl as much as someone can possibly be
You should message me if
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* You have some dreams and ambitions of your own;
* You don't mind people who use frustration with or negativity towards the world as emotional motivation to change it;
* You sympathize with "As I grow older, I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do."
* You lean left/feminist & don't mind someone going crazy over the 80s every once in a while;
* You don't think a white leather jacket is too over the top for someone 6'7"/2 meters tall