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46 New York, NY Woman, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 23
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Believe it or not, this site actually works! I met a delightful and perverted dominant man back in December 2013, started dating, became a 24/7 consensual master / slave couple, and currently I serve him as his property and his muse. He is a composer and a professor of music, so we travel a great deal for his work. And, of course, I still teach on kink and BDSM related topics, perform as a professional storyteller, and do all of the awesome shit I love doing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
While we are monoamorous, he has had a lifetime of desiring various kinky scenarios that do involve multiple bodies. We are not looking for other people to have romantic relationships with, but we ARE seeking reliable, kibky, consensual folks for occasional grop sex / gangbank stue play. He is quite aroused by the concept of multiple men “using” me, his slave, under his direction and control. He also has desires to potentially explore playing with other men himself.

I had the brilliant idea to see if we can find a few men who are eager to participate in a group sex / gang bang scenario while he supervises and directs the action! You are on the Fast Track to Action if: You are male Are bi/bi-curious/queer Are kinky / comfortable with BDSM play Strictly adhere to safer sex boundaries Are driven lustily crazy by fat & curvy Black women Are respectful and possessed of a good sense of humor About yourself please tell us: Your age, rank, serial number (J/K, we dont care about your age.) Where you are from. Why you responded to this ad. A bit about your sexual kinks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing. Reading. Thinking. Listening. Writing. Inspiring people's laughter. Storytelling. Scrabble. Not doing laundry. Sharing ideas & coalescing the ephemeral.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, laugh and eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Non-fiction science books and science fiction movies are joymakers.
I've read many books, but haven't been reading as much as I love of late because I'm working on writing them. I should just break down and replace that Kindle I broke last year, dammit....

Amarcord by Fellini is a cinematic gem of rare price. I am a Star Wars Freak. But only Episodes IV - VI.

Pretty much any John Woo movie is the shit.

Food? Yes, please. I love everything from good fillet at Ruth's Chris or a leisurely 4 courses at Fleur De Lys to a carnitas burrito at taqueria Can Cun or Pancho Villa to a late-night to kha gai at Osha Thai. Now that I am back home to NY I run all over the LES nomming and noshing Old school Deli food and weeping over a really good slab of nova lox.

Musical tastes are eerily and disturbingly eclectic. Noise metal, New Country and shitty, shitty pop being the exceptions to my "I love everything" rule. If something is written in a minor key, I will probably be all over it. If you can play the hell out of an instrument, more points for you.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cell-phone.

Kinky Sex.

Sensually pleasing foods.


The performing Arts.

Internet Access.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff. Kinky sex. Oppression & racism. Dreams. Oceans. Living creatures andd how they all became to be as they are. Molly's Cupcakes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Traveling to some sort of event for perverts somewhere, so I'm often in an airport fucking around and trying to find free WiFi and twittering about how there isn't any.

If I'm NOT traveling, I'm probably holed up in a local coffee house, fucking around online, reading writing or making plans for a late-night assignation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think farting is hilarious.
You should message me if
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You are interested in freaky sex with some deeply twisted perverts.