It has become clear, after my receiving a raft of very forward and, frankly, crass messages, that not everyone understands that being into BDSM and openly kinky doesn't mean I am your ready-to-rage submissive sex slut. THAT privilege has to be developed and earned. Being submissive does NOT translate to my doing everything you want me to do from jump. Send me a one-liner about what you want to do to me and you won't dig the response. If I were here to meet random men for merely carnal encounters, I would have said so.
I'm direct like that.
Random sex is easily obtained. Connected energy, lifetime adventure, deep affection and grounded love?
Not so much.
It is THOSE things I seek. Not a quick schtup.
I'm single, and by single I mean not involved with anyone else in a full-time relationship. I have friends with whom I will occasionally have kinky fun, spankings and rope bondage and stuff. It's fun and wonderful...and yet I miss having someone central in my life, and in my heart. That is what I'm seeking. Someone single, temporally & emotionally available, for heart-bonding and adventures.
OK. SO, me me , all about me.
Born and raised in the concrete canyons of NYC, I've also been writing and performing on stage since the age of five. I did a whole lot of commercials, and will bore you to tears with stories about baby elephants and being mistaken, that one time, for a child prostitute after leaving a commercial shoot. I sang on the soundtrack of the movie The Wiz and held a gun to Danny Bonaduce's head in the indie cult classic, America's Deadliest Home Video. Seriously. Look it up.
My one-woman show 69Stories: One Pervert's Tale enjoyed 5 incarnations including three full runs in San Francisco between 1997 and 2004. I was interviewed on "Forum" by Michale Krasny with regard to my Solo Show. By all accounts, I managed to represent wit, fierceness, and the awesomeness of Perverted Peoples to the Public Radio Crowd. My theater work has received critical acclaim and been recognized with several awards, including awards for "Best Local Actress" and "Most Radiant Presence in Shackles", a category created for my solo show and no doubt to be a singular honor!
I commonly and notoriously identify as a slave, masochist, and "Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission." That last part is somewhat ironical, because I don't often tremble. But I am, in the safety of the right relationship, fierce and submissive.
I am outgoing, sexy, and shy. Constantly curious. And odd. Odder than most, and yet craving the connection with someone for whom a diet of unusual spiritual fodder is the most enticing dish of all.