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23 Durham, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:46pm
Queer, Pansexual
Middle Eastern, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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queer/pansexual, sex-positive, anarchist, passionate, down-to-earth, intellectually voracious human being with an emphasis on kindness, openness, learning, self-transformation and constant challenge. I'm about building people up, not tearing them down, and I enjoy heartfelt conversations with total strangers. I love playing with language, but most of my profile has been written on my phone, leaving it awash in unfortunate lists.

INFP, if you think that's a thing

I vape. If you do you should message me to geek out.
What I’m doing with my life
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learning constantly. wandering. alternating between absorbing everything around me hungrily and walking around in a haze. watching tv critically. coming to the realization that lots of people are legitimately pretty happy most of the time. fighting for a better existence.
I’m really good at
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challenging authority figures in a friendly (Or sometimes unfriendly) manner, empathy, making friends with animals, hijinks, doublethink, cussin', finding good things to eat, accumulating reading material, bullshitting, being a derp, getting along with people I have little in common with, dancing when I get nervous, riding horses, yelling, hanging out in foreign countries
The first things people usually notice about me
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shitty mostly-shaved blue hair, general air of nervousness, metal in my face
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: (most of these authors are representative of genres I'm into) INGA MUSCIO x1000000 george saunders, jonathan weiner, terry pratchett, china mieville, sarah vowell, julian barnes, douglas adams, brett easton ellis, don delillo, william s. burroughs, james c. scott, stephen jay gould, michael muhammad knight, loren eiseley,ursula k. leguin, susanna clarke, classics like steinbeck and wodehouse and t.h. white. transmetropolitan, the invisibles, doom patrol, league of extraordinary gentlemen, planetary

movies: pierrot le fou, divine intervention, russian ark, the diving bell and the butterfly, natural born killers, notre musique, noi albinoi, once upon a time in the west, ghost dog, dead man, recently seven psychopaths. wes anderson, quentin tarantino, werner herzog and the coen brothers won't get me any street cred, but I lubs them. I also watch a hell of a lot of documentaries; currently fascinated by films about bizarre permutations of human sexuality. (not code for porn, although porn is fine.)

I like all those sorta-obscure-sorta-huge comedy shows that alt people generally enjoy (louie, bored to death, parks n rec, portlandia, archer, bobs burgers, loiter squad, key & peele, 30 rock, arrested development, reno 911 etc)

music: fucked up, wu-tang clan, leftover crack, agalloch, ulver, spiritualized, 16 horsepower, woods of ypres, envy, ufomammut, bathory, nick cave and the bad seeds, janis joplin, burzum, john fahey, horseback, grimes, kendrick lamar, burial, cormorant, devin townsend, erykah badu, pixies, shabazz palaces, spiritualized, tyler the creator, aesop rock, savages, iceage, mischief brew, johnny hobo and the freight trains, ramshackle glory, wingnut dishwashers union

food: cuchifritos, vietnamese/thai/japanese/indian, israeli/lebanese/turkish/moroccan, greek, legit sichuan, dim sum omfg sushi are a few favorites, but I will try pretty much anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Traveling while impoverished teaches you that you can do without pretty much anything.

but I love caffeine and my stupid creepy Orwellian smartphone, and I always have a book with me
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing very little. Trying to change that. Halp?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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places I've lived so far: trailer home on a Mennonite farm in Pennsylvania; tent in a state park in South Carolina; crisis pregancy center (my parents were counselors there); tiny suburban house with a huge yard; log cabin in the middle of New Jersey's fanciest soccer facility; 4,000 square foot house in a former Christian fundamentalist commune; apartment built into the side of a hill overlooking the Tappan Zee Bridge; orphanage on the outskirts of New Delhi; soul-crushing dorm on 15th street; miniscule room I had to climb over the roof to get into on 118th; east harlem apartment #2 (where I came the closest I've ever been to death); my ex-CIA grandma's house in Carrboro; an adorable pink Barbie dream house in Durham; a shitty-on-the-outside, nice-on-the-inside house on Greensboro; a psych ward in New Hampshire; and back to North Carolina.
You should message me if
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you're an intelligent, interesting person who'd like to have some fun. you need some new queer friends. youre an awesome lady who wants a new FWB, or just friend. you want to know more about the IWW. you're recovering from substance abuse problems and would like to build a support network. and whatever else, messaging doesn't hurt! I want to talk to you!

IMPORTANT: I'm not interested in being classist or ableist, however, please at least sort of make an effort to type out something coherant and interesting if you message me?

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