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Mommy_bear

29 / F / straight / Single

Cebu City, Philippines

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
4' 11" (1.49m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Fluently)

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I am sweet/affectionate, smart/businessminded, and a good woman.

My Self-Summary

I realized that whatever you write in your profile is how people judge you for what you are.. so it would really be best to talk to a person as often as possible. Communication is very important in every relationship.

Interesting facts about me (or are they?)

I don’t wear high-heeled shoes (so sorry guys who like women wearing stilettos and the like, the highest I use if necessary have 2 inches) I think this is because I’m a slip-prone, if I would make a video compilation of me slipping it would probably be a blockbuster when out in the market. LOL, I exaggerated in that.

I nail bite – according to psychologists and “fake psychologists” nail biting is one sign of having OCD. Oh, mine isn’t severe though. I know this is really a bad manner but I usually do it when I’m stressed (which happens everyday due to my work) When I’m watching TV and at the same time my mind is flowing with things. When I’m nervous or simply when I don’t have a nail clipper. LOL. A lot of doctors’ advice and tips are over the internet, but I think I only have one remedy. This is to have a boyfriend so I have the motivation to try my best to look good all the time. Hahaha!

I usually sleep at 2am and wake up at 9am. I have the same routine for 2 years now and I don’t think there is something wrong with me. You might envy me for getting 7 hours of sleep but in between these hours I usually wake up easily and then go back to sleep again.

I like playing the handywoman. I don’t call the repairman right away. I’m not scared of unscrewing things (LOL, what a mouthful). I once repaired our washing machine before my sis-in-law called the repairman. I can change light bulbs but that is if I can reach it. LOL. I also do the “first aid” on our computers in the office. I’m just not good at repairing computers though. Once, a technician told me that the computer I’ve given “first aid” would have exploded because of what I did.

Hmm, OK... I am a very romantic person. . I take love seriously in my life/heart and I always make sure that I do everything to make my partner happy. . to the extent that I sacrifice lots of things. I was once told I am like a candle that burn itself to give light to others. I'm not a striking beauty but I can be so attractive in my own way. I'm as affectionate as a cat and love cuddling while watching a romantic movie. Watching national geographic or anything about animals and cultures fascinate me so much. I' m a very honest person and I can tell my partner everything about my life if he would trust me and would listen to me with all his heart. Honestly speaking I'm a one-man-woman, and I also hope YOU would be. If u want to know more about me. . there are many things (interesting things) to share.

What I’m doing with my life

Reading business books and blogs about successful businesses

OUTDATED:
What are the things I am doing these days: I am currently managing an ONLINE ENGLISH TUTORIAL for KOREANS and have been doing this for more than two years now. I am also a full time mom to my handsome 2-year-old son. I have to say this: My son's father is American from New York but has never showed up or even supported us since. Well, he just doesn't know what he is missing. I have complete hands, feet and body to work 15 hours a day anyway so I think I can manage being a single parent. I have always been on my own since. My son is my life and if I would meet someone I would fall in love with again and vice versa, I hope he would accept my son as his own and the same thing I do to his. I am not here to find someone to support us financially but rather to meet someone who would be my lifetime partner.

I’m really good at

Multi-tasking (at work).. but never with multi-boyfriends and never with multi or double chatting. LOL but true.

The first things people usually notice about me

Physically - my eyes. My intelligence.. :-) My humor.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

OUTDATED:
BOOKS: For now, I am only reading the textbooks of my students but I still enjoy reading fairy tales, oh gee! is it a minus for me? MOVIES: I still enjoy watching children's movies (blushes) and classic movies. I think the best movie I ever watched is "EVER AFTER" oh yeah, I'm corny, but this is me. I like almost all kinds of MUSIC, pop, jazz, country music, and the best music that I like the most is when I talk to my son on the phone and he would say "hello, mommy" or when he calls me by my pet name. Hahaha.. really sounds funny but I like it so much. and FOOD? oh I'm not picky.. I can survive on a remote island. LOL

The six things I could never do without

In order:

My son

Job

COFFEE (I just can't start the day without it)

My computer especially the internet.

My mouse LOL (how cld I use my computer?)

Food for my family.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

In any order:

1. My son

2. Our future (my son's future ~> would he really be the next Josh Groban? LOL)

3. How to win the LOTTERY JACKPOT! lol. Well, if I would win I would be able to help more people.

3. How to be a good COOK!!

4. Who created OKC. I just can't believe I am part of this amazing site.

On a typical Friday night I am

My working hours have lessend,

Outdated:
still working.... I work 16 hours a day/ 6 days a week.. ugh!! (hey Im not complaining.. I just hope someone would be here to give me a back rub.. and then I will of course return the favor and then ummm... hehehe.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

hmmm, tried to post it last week, but I realized people might have thought of me as someone ummmm.. anyway, I will just have to post something else. I call it "The most personal thing I'm willing to admit here"

My parents didn’t spend a single penny (this is NOT an overstate) for my college education. My mom told me that if I won’t study TEACHING then she would never support me. I didn’t. I don't know why but I just didn't want to. I wanted to become a Newscaster or a journalist (a course that is expensive here in the Philippines). The sad thing is no one in my family (until now) knows what I really wanted to do (have tears in my eyes now) but an uncle who told me he would see what he could do. Unfortunately he passed away. That was one of my biggest frustrations but I don’t feel bitter about it anymore. I was able to save up and ended taking a Business course.

I don’t want to say I should have followed my mom's advice in the first place, but I ended up TEACHING (OK, tutoring) and I think I have found my real passion, and what God really wants me to do. Every job is very helpful in every society, but I have to say teaching is one of the best (not the best paying to others) but the most rewarding. The noblest. Teaching can be energy draining and can be one of the reasons I nail-bite. LOL. But the best reward I get is when I realize how my students improve from BEGINNER-ELEMENTARY level and way up and when they say I am the best.

I have also applied the course I majored in when I was in College which is Business Administration, as I am also the one in charge in the management and the operation of the tutorial. What I do is not a walk in the park as I have all the responsibilities on my shoulder. But at the end of the day, I thank God for all the blessings He's giving me.

You should message me if

POINT BLANK: You are between 5-10 years my senior (PS: there are several men contacting me who are younger, I'm sorry but we're just going to waste both out time)

... you are single and BETTER if you're a single parent like me. The thing is I recently realized I enjoy talking to someone who is on the same boat.

... you want to visit the Philippines, and simply want to know something about our laws, traditions, etc (although I won't guarantee I know all the answers, I have wiki to help me)

... you have 2 or more pictures

... we at least match 70% as partners / at least 70 % as friends and any as enemies

... you are not just looking for casual sex. I can be really "naughty" but with the person I have mutual feeling

I would message you If or rather bug you hehehe

you seem to be a kind person
you are an intelligent person (I'm a sucker of this)
you are single or you are a single parent with a cute daughter / son
you are handsome
you have completed your profile
you have 2 or more pictures
your profile shows you have a strong and cool personality
your profile don't show lots of grammatical errors and inkorekt sppeling (the thing is I am still learning English, so I want to learn more
from you)

and many other reasons why I would message YOU