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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm dreamy and determined, energetic and pensive, equal parts amorous dolphin & confused ferret. Like many of us, I love escapades to faraway lands, but I'm looking for someone to find adventures in the everyday. Looking to find a calm and crazy, positive spirit and a good soul. Someone who's interested in creating a world together, keeping each other creatively challenged, play tricks on each other, cook for each other, crack each other up, whip each other into shape, understand when to give each other space, and be there for each other when needed the most.

Originally from the Midwest, now a happy New Yorker, I’m a film and theater director, writer, surfer, risk taker and hopeless romantic. Other things that I love:
- photographing jellyfish
- Horatio Street at 4am
- Driving through snowstorms with the heat blasting and the windows down
- Bizarre food combinations
- Dancing like Howdy Doody on acid
- bathing in garlic and Rioja
- Making people laugh until I see their uvula
What I’m doing with my life
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Laughing. A lot. I have declared this chapter "the era of joy," and I'm sticking to it. Working hard to simply my life, find balance and open up space for the unexpected...and surfing whenever possible! I love surfing because it makes me remember who I am.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Losing my keys
-cooking Thai green curry
-making people laugh (with me, at me, either is fine)
-writing crap songs on guitar
-most things I put my mind to
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My quirky sense of humor, and that I’m a good listener.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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movies: Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Cinema Paradiso, Once Upon a Time in the West, Waiting for Guffman, Babel, Nobody Home, David Lynch films, Bruno, Amelie, Black Orpheus, Fargo, Adaptation, Donnie Darko, The Shining, 8 ½, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s nest, Tarkovsky, zombie movies

books: all Haruki Murakami, Unbearable Lightness of Being, Anna Karenina, Life of Pi, Confederacy of Dunces, Middlesex, History of Love, Perfume, Feast of Love, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Master and Margarita, Naked and the Dead, Mila 18, Crime and Punishment, the Dot and the Line

music: Jamiroquai, OK Go, Manu Chao, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Radiohead, Soundtracks to Black Orpheus and Solaris, Buscemi, Ben Harper, Brazzaville, Elvis Costello, Jim White, Magnetic Fields, Outkast, Arvo Noto, Talking Heads, Cornelius, Black Keys, Antonio Carlos Jobim, Cake, cheesy J-pop

Food: Anything organic. And I don't mean without pesticides or antibiotics. I literally mean anything edible. I love food and will eat practically anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
surfing (and all things oceanic)
making out
my ancient Jeep
making out some more (yes I love kissing)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* How to be a compassionate, loving badass
*simplicity and balance
* How to see better, to be freer, in the biggest way possible
* Whether a toad’s stomach would light up if it ate lightning bugs
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the theater, movies, meeting a good friend for dinner, or jumping in the my old Jeep to see the moon over the ocean
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don’t have a uvula. I was forced to have a uvulectomy after I got hideously drunk one night in college, and it grew to the size of a gummy-worm.
You should message me if
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you are:

-Are a sweet girl that can be a hard ass
-Can differntiate between passion and drama
-Are much more interested in seeing the positive rather than the negative; no dark souls invited, thank you
-Are looking for someone who’s independent and self-sufficient but relationship minded
-Value sense of humor, intelligence, reliability, and unpredictability