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29 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:23pm
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Russian, French, Other
My self-summary
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Moved to New York in Nov 2014. After a month managed to find myself in Brooklyn when I meant to go to midtown soooooo..... Directions are not my strength. I'm much better now though :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Social justice/human rights legal work and living in lots of different countries. Lately, in my spare time I have enjoyed making cat bow ties and going to Jacob Riis Beach -- the queer/topless section is so fun/liberating/inclusive/affirming/everything I love!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking; planning/organizing things; Excel spreadsheets; recognizing faces; helping people.

Things I'm really bad at:

directions, directions, directions.

I'm also not very good at censoring myself. I almost always say exactly what I'm thinking. It's usually fine, but every so often it gets me in trouble.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I communicate with my eyes, apparently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows -- Game of Thrones (total fanatic), House of Cards, Louie, Dexter, Masters of Sex, The Mindy Project, Gotham, Freaks and Geeks, The Wire, ABG, Arrested Development, It's Always Sunny, Parks and Rec, The Daily Show with John Oliver, Colbert, Broad City

Books -- Trauma Stewardship; The Poisonwood Bible; She's Come Undone (Wally Lamb is amazing); Memoirs of a Geisha; A Thousand Splendid Suns; The Good Earth; Elie Wiesel.

Movies -- Anything but horror.

Music -- Hip-hop (Dead Prez, Lauryn Hill, MIA, Jay-Z, Kanye, Clipse, Kweli, etc.), Dancehall, Reggaeton

Food -- Thai, Indian, Vietnamese, Burmese, Russian, Middle Eastern (I cook most of these and hate traditionally "American" food. Except diner food--the way to my heart is via veggie omelet. )
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
pennyworth salad, Dave Chappelle & Donald Glover stand-up, Dan Savage's "Savage Love" column and podcast, festivals/fairs, bubble tea, my Baba's khachapouri
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the fact that my public interest law career means I'll never be able to afford one of those hypoallergenic jungle cats (aka "LIFESTYLE PETS"), gender issues, where I'm going to travel next, corporate accountability, international justice, sex worker rights, fun light-hearted issues like genocide and human trafficking, how much Hello Kitty is too much Hello Kitty, arguably perverse things I want to do to pastries (or in general)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having a drink with friends, going on a date, or unwinding at home. Depends on how horrifically busy the week was. Sometimes at work, which is very, very sad.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is a thing that I own:

It was a gift, but I won't front like I don't like it.
You should message me if
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-up for something more serious if the chemistry is right
-about social justice, on some level
-comfortable describing yourself as a feminist
-nerdy and/or geeky


If you could not comment on my breasts in your message, that would be super. Let me assure you, there's nothing you can say about them that I don't already know.

And for the love of GOD, do not refer to me as "yummy." While I do love pastries, I am a human being, not a hamentashen.