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Monogamouslove

53 Rochester, MI Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–53
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:41am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a unique perspective on life - I know that anyone can know and understand anything about life. I also know that life is in our hands.

So, what do I think are the most important points to having a really good long-term relationship:

Some common interests
Some common goals
Honesty, openness and communication
Respect for each other
Kindness and a willingness to help each other
Some physical admiration
Some common values
Creativity and fun

Following are some of the most pronounced parts of who I am, which I hope will help you decide if you think we might enjoy each other's company:

*I love to learn
From physics to the spirit to the body, other living things, cultures, the mind, creativity, ability, language, history, sciences, etc.

*I enjoy exercising and eating healthy

*I'm very dedicated to helping my daughter do well and maintaining a close relationship with her

*I enjoy live singing and live theater and musicals

*I enjoy being outside, nature, lakes, oceans, trees and fishing. All of my exercising is done outside and I look forward to living on a lake again (even possibly having another house built on a lake).

*I enjoy creating a nice, orderly and attractive home - I've had two of them built.

*I enjoy helping others

*I enjoy trying new things, new foods and seeing new places
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Most of the above
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Most of the above
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty easy going and friendly
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Those things related to the above
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The things above
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can do more of the things above and share them with someone special
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Any of the things above
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think we might be compatible as friends