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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:40pm
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Has cats
English, French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Very curious about life. Speak French, un poquito de espanol, and even less Russian. Like alternative, jazz and international music, used book stores, reading, biking, traveling, ethnic foods, good beer & wine, experimental cooking, foreign/indie films, philosophizing, world events, politics, road trips, etc. Love to laugh at witty humor. Although maybe not noticeable at first, I'm really a romantic at heart. I'm HIV-positive, undetectable, and healthy. I'm actively involved with social groups like Cookboyz, Outwoods, a book club, and the gay country dance thing on Sunday nights.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work at a job that involves testing, offering support and connecting newly diagnosed HIV+ individuals to care. I also teach community education French and ESL classes and do volunteer work with the Center for Victims of Torture.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
learning languages, teaching, writing, acting. I'm also good at observing and listening to others. I'm very easy-going in most situations and have been told that I have a "calming presence." I love to learn new things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh probably - and my wonderfully odd sense of humor, then maybe my eyebrows or eyes. Everyone seems to have a relative or friend whom I remind them of.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wow, that's a lot for one category...

Books: The Handmaid's Tale, The Giver, Lake Wobegon Days, The Professor and the Madman, The Metamorphasis, The Stranger, Ishmael, Steppenwolf, All Families Are Psychotic, Generation X, 1984, George Bush - Dark Prince of Love, etc.

Movies: Donnie Darko, Before Sunrise, The Empire Strikes Back, The Princess Bride, Angels in America, most Woody Allen and Christopher Guest films, etc.

Music: I'm all over the place here. I love 80's and 90's alternative music - by far my favorite genre. I also love jazz and international music. Love Bossa Nova. American folk and bluegrass. I love old 70's songs from my youth as well as (I must guiltily admit) a handful of songs from artists like Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera.

Food: I love ethnic food of all kinds! I love trying - and making - new dishes with interesting spices. I think Indian and Thai are my favorites but I also like Mexican, Greek, Chinese, Pizza Luce, etc. Basically, I like to EAT!! I tend to prefer quirky and divey places to super nice restaurants. But I can usually find something anywhere I go.

As far as bars go - my favorite places are spots that are really laid back, play good music, serve decent beer and have a mixed crowd with all ages, races, orientations, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Microbrew beer
Sense of humor
Sense of curiosity
Internet connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how the best results usually come from listening to my gut instincts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Don't really have a routine: Going out to eat, to have a couple beers as well as hanging out with friends or catching a movie. When the weather is nicer I like to go for walks outside. Or sometimes I like to just take it easy and relax at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I own a tv but I only use it maybe three or four times a year.
You should message me if
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if anything i have said is interesting to you and if you are genuine and have a sense of curiosity and witty sense of humor.