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51 M Aurora, CO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:31pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would describe myself as adventurous, ambitious, intelligent, artsy, healthy, cultured. I'm equally comfortable at the symphony, art museum, coffee house, on the bike trail, hole-in-the wall, at home on the couch, or with a group of friends. You should be comfortable with someone that has a wide range of interests and wants to keep learning and experiencing new things. That's what life's all about!

I'm a published author, and you can find my cook book on Amazon among other places. 118 pages of deliciousness.

I'm an INTJ, so if you base your life on Jungian Archetypes, you may want to take this into consideration.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm transitioning into a new phase of my professional life, from medicine to food (I haven’t given up my day job yet, and I’ll give you details if you’re interested), and I have to spend some extra time on that. But I'll always make time for the right person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, writing music, writing, shaking Martinis, trivia, espresso, throwing cocktail parties, riding my bike really fast (Passione Celeste), La Calçotada, drinking vino tinto from a porrón (many bonus points if you know what that is), and some other stuff you might find out on your own...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Ray-Bans......then my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Simon Winchester, Master and Margarita, The Ascent of Man, Kitchen Confidential, to name a few.

Movies: Metropolis, Farenheit 451, This Island Earth, Fail-Safe, any Pink Panther movie with Peter Sellers, Rear Window, Touch of Evil, and lots more.

Music: Bartók, Stravinsky, Pärt, Gorecki, Sinatra, Cole (as in Nat King), Krupa, Tormé, VNV Nation, Seabound, Apop, Cesium 137, Band of Horses, Ray LaMontagne, Boxer Rebellion, Sigur Rós, Nouvelle Vague, Jacques Brel, Max Raabe und Palast Orchester, Alim Qasimov....a smattering.

Food: Thai, Indian, North African, Spanish (especially tapas and fidéoa), the list goes on....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I. Tapas
II. Spanish Red Wine
III. Music
IV. Books
V. My Telescope
VI. My Chef's Knife
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The farthest reaches of the universe, Pangaea Ultima, cognitive consonance, or food and wine pairings, depending on my mood. Why Meatless Sunday makes infinately more sense than Meatless Monday. The difference between passion and drama;please have at least some of the former and little of the latter. Not having a mid-life crisis, because mid-life has turned out to be the best part yet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for cocktails and dinner, or in for cocktails (I have a private cocktail, really), or the symphony, or First Friday, or some live music, home in the studio (for my music) or kitchen, taking photos of the Moon, whatever sounds fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know how to swim.....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'ve made it this far!

-You don't plan on trying to coerce me into going on the "zombie crawl", 'cause I won't. No matter what the consequences.

-You aren't perpetually training for a bi/tri/muddy/iron/bootcamp/whatever-the-hell. Staying active is good. Being obsessive is not.

-You know and use any adjectives other than "amazing"...