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31 F Beaverton, OR

My Details

Last Online
Jul 4
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Just as life is, I am a complex, multidimensional and constantly changing enigmatic anomaly. Life, myself, and this profile are equally subject to the only constant in life: change. Look forward to these changes in the near future, both gradually and eventually en-mass as I reinvent myself <3


My love in life is music. I play nearly every day at a practice space in Beaverton. I am also a multi-instrumentalist. Currently, I am playing drums in two projects, but also play whatever I can with whomever I can. Constantly searching for musical soul mates. I play flute, also through my effects box. Noodle on guitar, bass, mando, keys, banjo, viola...whatever I can get my fingers on. I like to sing, but it's better when I don't smoke (unless you like dirty lounge/blues singers). Have a project you need some sound on? Let's talk!

Connecting with kindred spirits, exploring the perspectives of others concerning the meaning of life, art, love, laughter and happiness. Mainly music is That's what I am living for because it's the only thing that keeps me consistently happy, challenged, amused, frustrated and excited and in total love and awe on a daily basis. I adore cats and dogs equally and am always down for kitty/doggy/birdie/lizard or whatever cuddles. Lizard used to be my nickname (and still is to some). I love making people good foods. I grew up in a small town as a restaurant brat. I've spun pizzas for a good portion of my life and I love making and drinking coffee & tea. I used to hambone as a kid. I sing. My friends are my family. I love crafts and never have enough time/space to do them all. Sometimes I juggle when I'm fidgety or feeling silly. I love swinging fire poi though I am out of practice and am starting to take up practicing it again (take me under your wing, you fire king/queen?) I miss the coast, love and used to live on the road and in the woods. Often the stillness of nature is the only thing I can relate to. Amazing moments are when my fingers and toes are appreciating the beauty around me. I've been to and through 32 states, but the NW is the most kind in people, brew & trees :)

I am Complex, Simple, and Laughing About It ~*~
What I’m doing with my life
I'm unique, just like everybody else!

Digging in my roots while uprooting myself, focusing on improving myself on all levels, loving people, playing music, speaking my soul and enjoying life during this amazing time of change.

I used to be the drummer, singer and modulated flute player in a local alternative, electronic progressive math rock band called The Mercury Tree, still playing locally near you with an amazing lineup. Check them out if you dig Prog. Or just check them out anyways.

*I love running my flute through my BOSS ME70, singing, hand drumming, messing around on guitar, saxophone or any woodwind I can get my hands on, and just generally making music as much as possible. It's one of the most enjoyable & hardest things I've ever done in my life...the rewards are priceless.

*Working at New Seasons Market and enjoying the wonderful love and friendship of my coworkers! It's still the Man, but it's the Better Man.

*Moving in a month...but I don't know where to! Eeek!

Hanging out with my close friends. Making delicious foods. Eating said delicious foods with close friends and random acquaintances (and sometimes strangers whom are hungry). Listening to musics. Wearing warm yummy socks. My super power is gullibility, as I am a very trusting, yet intelligent, person. I also have been known to be "State the Obvious Girl". Superpowers are way cool.

*Being open minded with a healthy serving of idealism, cynicism and realism while trusting my intuitions.. I don't consider myself part of the flock and have always been a bit of a black sheep in my family, in a good way.

*Petting people's doggies when I pass them on the street makes me giggle and smile from ear to ear. I revel in random doggy love. Yeah, you read that.

*Reacquainting myself with my mending heart. Being emotionally available while balancing emotional vulnerability due to being over trusting, but it's all good. Being lazy and relaxing & an equally productive crackhead, sans crack. Rambling on about random tangents. I love to research and gather information. I really believe that the day you stop learning is the day you start to die. Finding new ways to make rice amazing. Drooling over music equipment. Drooling over music. Killing myself (ciggie vice). Taking care of people when they are sick/hurt. Avoiding things. Not avoiding things and attacking my priorities with gusto.

I'm all or nothing, and everything in between.

Did I mention music...?
I’m really good at
Listening. Talking. Sharing. Laughing. Helping out. Making you smile. Knowing obscure random things. Starting projects and not finishing them. Starting projects and finishing them obsessively. Having a tough shell. Having an equally soft shell. Giving love to the critters. Not matching my clothes. Being gullible & equally cynical. Smiling. Being happy sitting in the grass in the sun. Being so loyal it hurts. Blending in with a crowd or standing out depending on how spunky I feel. Being contrary. Making social situations odd when I don't pick up on those oh-so-subtle social cues. Being considerate. Saying odd, pun like jokes that few actually pick up on. Being a geek. Being indecisive. Figuring myself out. Loving others. Sharing the awesomeness that can be found in life with people who REALLY care. Writing. Over analyzing everything. Being the best navigator on a cross country road trip. Psychically communicating with kindred spirits through eye-window gazes.
If this last one sounds weird to you, we will make the better friends than anything else.
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh, my eyes, piercings, awkward, quirky, animated, smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Please bear with, this is a year old, but will give one a general idea of my background:

Books: I read a lot of science fiction and fantasy when I was younger, and I have been picking through an autobiography by Frank Zappa at work and recently was skimming Thus Spoke Zarathustra by Nietchzie, The Blue Adept by Piers Anthony, and I just read Fight Club by Chuck Palahniuk, I adored the Dune series when I was a kid, Under the Banner of Heaven is an interesting read and The People's History of the United States of America is a bit of a tough undertaking although it proves to be an intriguing read for me every time I pick it up. I can't stay focused on that book for some reason. David Sedaris is hilarious, and I really want to get into House of Leaves. I like other things and tend to pick up and put down books easily. I'm always looking for suggestions.

Music (a shaky shakedown in no order): Frank Zappa, Joni Mitchell, Battles, Tool, The Mercury Program, Belly, Depeche Mode, Gregorian and Tibetan Chants, Ravi Shankar, Ani Difranco, Frank Zappa, Tom Waits, Steely Dan, Akai, Beastie Boys, Mercury Program, Elliot Smith, The Doors, The Mercury Tree, Meshuggah, Beck, Ben Harper, Moses Smell The Roses/Bearcubbi'/Jezebel Spirit/Bro Fam Collective, Mastadon, Bela Fleck and the Flecktones, Sky Cries Mary, Johnny Cash, Suzanne Vega, Tool, Rusted Root, Nickel Creek, Electric Light Orchestra, Blondie, Tower of Power, MGMT, Jamiroquai, Evanescence, Rasputina, Cat Stevens, Blue Man Group, Alanis Morsette, Veruca Salt, Led Zeppelin, Bucket Head, John Mayer, Fat Boy Slim, Queens of the Stone Age, Alice in Chains, NOFX, Ben Folds Five, Sleater Kinney, The Eels, Cake, Chemical Brothers, Phil and the Microphones, Old Time Relijun, CSNY, Dave Matthews, Blue Man Group, Polka (yes, seriously) Enya, Celtic Jigs and Shanties (no, really), Gentle Giant, Delerium, Animal Collective, Autolux, Pj Harvy, Sonic Youth, Built to Spill, Bjork, Suzanne Vega, Radiohead, Modest Mouse, Jezebel Spirit, QOTSA, TVOTR, The Beatles, Bearcubbin'!, Cat Power, PJ Harvey, Nirvana, Johnny Cash, Beck, Ween, Moby, Massive Attack, Portishead, Belly, NIN, Boards of Canada, Orbital, The Books, Genesis, The Decemberists Queen, Isis, Stereolab, Serg Gainsberg, Radiohead, MGMT, Battles, Black Moth Super Rainbow, APC, Joni Mitchell, NIN, Phish, Portishead, Tori Amos, Weezer, Billie Holiday, XTC, Bjork, Infected Mushroom, most any down home Bluegrass & lots of jam bands like Greatful Dead, STI, Yonder Mountian String Band, Yes, Doc Watson, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, The White Stripes, Aphex Twin, George Gershwin, Mazzy Star, Morphine, Hill Stomp, Soul Coughing, anything with a Latin beat...I also do like metal, but none are really listed because I've only been getting exposed to more metal over the past couple of years and I am HORRIBLE at remembering band & album names.

Also, there is so much more music I love and listen to and can't even begin to list or my fingers would get tired :p

Movies: Also no particular order: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Harold and Maud, Benny and Joon, Shawshenk Redemption, Oh Brother Where Art Thou?, Spinal Tap, Amelie, Legend, Snatch, Twin Town, Monty Python, Fight Club, Waking Life. I am terrible at remembering names of movies, but I love comedy, good horrors, psychological thrillers, foreign films, many indie movies, and I am always up for something new. I have been kind of removed from mainstream society without having a television, so I don't know a lot of what is out there. I am always looking to be exposed to something new!

Food: I like it. I am not really picky and tend to describe myself as an opportunivore. I would preferably be eating fresh cooked meals with lots of veggies and yummy sauteed things such as onions, mushrooms and chicken everyday. I like thai, chinese, mexican and italian foods. Sushi is bliss and makes one glow for up to 48 hours after consuming. I love a good burger or a nicely done slab of salmon/sturgeon/tuna. I would really like to broaden my horizons of ethnic food varieties. I like good tofu. Crepes are heaven. Coffee and tea are bringers of life. A good heffewizen, IPA or cider beer can do wonders for a lonely soul on a cold night with a friend, although I rarely partake in drinking, I am truly a social drinker, and do so only on occasion: it just doesn't bring me to the place where it used to in the past. I will probably try just about anything once.
The six things I could never do without
*A way to make and listen to music
*Friends and loved ones to share my life with
*My kitty, Zoe <3
*Good foods & drinks.

Brought to you today by the number 7.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...why the world is the way it is, the nature of the human condition, its meaning and how I choose to relate to life while simultaneously being engulfed within its depths...

Not to mention (oh, but I am) the random stuff that most people don't think about since I tend to over-analyze everything. Things such as how the world is going to experience a sort of melt down/deconstruction/shift in 2012 and how my survival skills will hack up during an apocalyptic societal collapse.

Fortunately, I have spent some long-term living in the woods, and have therefore deduced that I would make an excellent partner either during a nuclear war, zombie mutant virus out-break or some other such catastrophe.

Apparently I think like a Nihilist at times, yet I am optimistic, idealistic and generally trusting. It's a weird combo, but I am a weird bird, so TWEET!

On a lighter note, I also dream about having a house on some land with a garden, music studio, pottery shed, 9 trillion animals (not really, but kinda) and my friends and loved ones to come and go as they please. I would invite everyone in to have some coffee/tea/wine/beer, pick up an instrument, paint brush, hunk of clay or soThen I start daydreaming about the things I love:

Playing in the dirt
Doing something gratifying and basking in the afterglow
Going on walks and hikes
Riding my bike
Cooking and enjoying good food
My close friends
Good brew (coffee & beer)
The simple things in life (i stop to smell the roses)
As well as the complex
Long games of chess into the night
Philosophical conversations that last hours, or a lifetime
Lots of good coffee and tea
More music
Good books and movies
Living my fantasies
Or enjoying them in my mind
Working for the things I really enjoy
Realizing my own potential and hopefully taking advantage of it
Cuddling, loving, laughing
And campfires/fire many as possible as the smell of woodsmoke on my hoodie is intoxicating to me.

I over analyze things as well, and I tend to look at the simple complexly and the complex simply. Re-arranging my heart, mind and soul is proving more than intriguing, enlightening, and a healthy challenge. Starting a new chapter in this game I call life.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no typical Friday life is not that planned out, I don't live by the regular standards of the contemporary "week" and I like to keep my options open with opportunities for spur of the moment plans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Guns and liquor and dirty wombats.

I don't have a car & I ride the max for free when I am broke, which can be often. This, I am sure, will be the cornerstone in the cause of the world's demise. I'm a jeans and hoodie wearing tomboy who is starting to experiment with wearing skirts. It's nice to feel pretty from time to time. I never wear makeup. I am not high maintenance.

I've also come close to death a few times *insert spooky noise here*

I also tend to be a serial monogamist...a habit which I think I may need to break, considering past outcomes.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
No expectations. Smile. Laugh. Be healthily open minded and grounded.

Be well, laugh much, live fully!