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45 Maple Shade, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a reasonably confident, capable, professional woman looking to share the journey of life. I am intelligent, logical, and sensitive most of the time... :)

I like to start with new friendships and see where things go versus overly high expectations on a first date... hanging out or hanging in... I enjoy fun, friendly, easy going people and strive to be the same... Freedom and respect are important...

I enjoy my job, but I enjoy learning about people more. I recently completed my Master's in general Psychology (June 2010...) I haven't figured out what's next... but I'm having fun while doing it... :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Most of my time is spent between work and a healthy dose of maintaining a social life. My friendships are important to me so I enjoy sharing my free time with them and trying to meet as many new people as time allows.

I am multi-faceted and I'm just as comfortable curling up with a good book as being out with a group of friends. Though sometimes I need some nudging to want to go out... relaxing at home has a special appeal for an introvert... I've just gotten to the point in my life where I'd like to share.... :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, analytical thought, yarn crafts, and sewing. I'm great a lending an ear and being a loyal friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I used to be a voracious reader, reading anything I could get my hands on. I'm just starting to read again after so much reading for school... I had to learn to relax in other ways. I think my favorite all time book is "Catcher in the Rye" or maybe "Beowulf".

While I'm not much into television, I am a huge fan of food porn which is good as I love to cook, especially for friends. Good movies make nice alternatives too...

In general, I'm pretty open to just about anything - and believe that I'd always try something once. Though I must say that the pending request for parachuting out of a perfectly good plane is making me pause... I'll do it... LOL maybe a bit grudgingly... and I have to say it's on the list of things that terrify me.... but I'd do it for the thrill and the experience... :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, family, companionship, affection (giving and receiving), variety, and feeling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do next in my life, how the things that I'm studying will one day help me to help others, relationships, how people interact, why I have 200 channels on television and can't find anything to watch... EVER..., how I got over 480 days of music in my collection... and just about anything else random...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or hanging at home relaxing after the week at work. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a little outside the mainstream. I am both poly-friendly and hetero-flexible though neither is a requirement. I don't know how private that is though, since I'm pretty open about it - but is isn't something I'm likely to just blurt out anytime either. If you have questions, just ask!
You should message me if
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You found any of this interesting, want a new friend, or know of some good food porn you want to share!