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25 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:42am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a composer, net sport enthusiast, attraction operations manager, ham and Tolkien nerd (though Colbert makes me look like a poser).

I'm goofy, but I can be serious about certain things. Integrity is big, so is keeping an open mind. Reverence is a thing with me. So is irreverence. So is being willing to grow and change with the times while maintaining the principles that keep life mysterious and magical.

I can make better Pad Thai than you. Sorry, not sorry.

I was born in California, my family lives there, so I'm in San Francisco/Marin and LA/Santa Monica alot.

I actively seek out new experiences, not so much with drugs though. Always down for a concert, especially chamber, symphony, acoustic, or danceable bands. I guarantee I've just seen the craziest theater ever, nothing will shock me from here on out.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working way too many hours as a manager in unusual places until I can make teaching and writing music my full time gig. Also, strengthening friendships begun in VT where I went to school, making new friends, going on dates, journaling, performing, and making up songs on the platform when the Q takes half an hour.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making faces--no, honestly
Scattergories, taboo, cranium
Home made pad thai
Capulet's "God's Bread" speech
Seeing the good side of things
Ruining my image
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People say I'm tall. I think I'm normal sized. I was the 2nd shortest guy on both my high school varsity sports teams.

I have sort-of epicanthic folds.

I know, I totally look like that one guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: (Would love suggestions!) The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, A Wrinkle in Time, Crime and Punishment, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Ender Quartet, Harry Potter, Holes, Something Upstairs, Outliers, Hidden America, Musicophilia, Peoples History of the United States

POETRY: Anne Sexton, John Donne, Rumi, Hafiz, Joni Mitchell, Emily Dickinson, many others

MOVIES: Lars and the Real Girl, The Sting, Babel, Lawrence of Arabia, Legend of 1900, The Fifth Element, Titan A.E., Lord of the Rings, Brokeback Mountain, Stargate, Wayne's World, Austin Powers, Haiku Tunnel, My Neighbor Totoro, Princess Mononoke

SHOWS: The West Wing, Boston Legal, Firefly, Family Guy, Simpsons, Game of Thrones, Bob's Burgers, Orange is the New Black, Key and Peele,

Radiohead, Weezer, Feist, Arcade Fire, Muse, Ingrid Michaelson, Will Stratton, Mountain Man, Beatles,
Joni Mitchell, CSNY, Jimi Hendrix, Eric Clapton, Cream, Bonnie Raitt, Stevie Wonder, Sarah Vaughan, Michael Jackson, Ella Fitzgerald, Nat King Cole, Art Tatum

Debussy, Ravel, Tchaikovsky, Dvorak, Brahms, Stravinksy, Steve Reich, Julia Wolfe, Gyorgy Ligeti, Samuel Barber, Leonard Bernstein, John Corigliano
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Chances to be utterly silly and embarrassing to the people around me
Time to write/compose
My inner child
My practical, executive function get-things-done voice
Running shoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How, when I have troves of treasure I'll have a vault (like Scrooge McDuck) except instead of a bunch of laser beams and security guards I'll have a series of doors with combination locks that are word puzzles, and only someone who got inside my mind would be able to figure them out. Also, my friend makes a good point: if you had a giant heap of gold and tried to dive into it, you'd die. So... yeah.

I also think about other stuff. But this comes up when I'm waiting for the train and I'm reading everything backwards. (I like palindromes).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully dancing. If not that, I'll take laughing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not naturally organized. That's perhaps putting it lightly. I'm working on it.
You should message me if
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you laugh at dumb jokes
you need a partner for volleyball or tennis
you know a good road trip game
you feel so inclined you fall over