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33 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
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I find truth in existentialism and Buddhism.

I enjoy observing people's psychology and phenomenon. I love aha moments. I want to become wiser.

I enjoy rarely used, very specific words and etymology.

I'm open to wherever you are in your life, if you are just starting out and haven't accomplished any of your goals, that's not a problem for me.

I am falling in love with nature. I prefer trees, mountains, lakes, and rivers to oceans. I love white water rafting and plan to explore kayaking come springtime.

I'm practicing happiness.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for an environmental consulting firm.

I spend a lot of time reading on the internet: the Atlantic wire (is the best), NPR, the Atlantic weekly, Slate, the BBC, Scientific American, Psychology Today. I really enjoy Buzzfeed. I realize they get a lot of their source material from Reddit, but I don't enjoy Reddit's interface.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Unbearable Lightness of Being, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Franny and Zooey, 9 Stories, The World According to Garp, The Missing Piece Meets the Big O, We the Living, Breakfast of Champions, Narcissus and Goldmund, Jitterbug Perfume, A Prayer for Owen Meany.

I love poetry- Sara Teasdale, Leonard Cohen, Charles Bukowski, Tes Kooser, Frank O'Hara

Movies: My favorite screen writer is Charlie Kaufman. My top two by him are Synecdoche, New York and Being John Malkovich. Wes Anderson, Sophia Coppola, Amy Heckerling, I Heart Huckabees, Wild at Heart, South Park: Bigger, Longer, and Uncut, Hilary and Jackie, Sliding Doors, the Triplets of Belleville, Trois couleurs: Bleu, Austin Powers

Shows: Last Week Tonight, Girls, Portlandia, The IT Crowd, Flight of the Concords, Big Bang Theory

Music: Bluegrass. I really love cajun music that I can two-step or waltz to. Playlist:
Try A Little Tenderness Otis Redding
These Days Nico
You Can Leave Your Hat On. Esp. Etta James version
Yeh Yeh They Might Be Giants
Picture The Blakes
Shakedown on 9th Street Ryan Adams
Matador Los Fabulous Cadillacs
Bamboleo - Gipsy Kings
Shoofly Pie The Wood Brothers
Big in Japan Tom Waits
Jenny Don't Be Hasty Paolo Nutini
Time Has Told Me Nick Drake
Fake Palindromes Andrew Bird
Just a Gigolo Louis Prima
Aguas De Marco Astrid Gilberto
Mondo Bongo Joe Strummer and the Mescaleros
Dejalo Rilo Kiley
That Time Regina Spektor
Growing On Me The Darkness
Tick Yeah Yeah Yeahs
Valerie Amy Winehouse
Rise Above The Dirty Projectors
Bombs Over Baghdad Outkast
Walking Blues Eric Clapton

Fruit, veggies, meat, no bread
I don't drink often, but when I do it's whiskey
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Deterministic chaos
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"AMD" or Assumed Mutual Disinterest, i.e. I look at your profile, you look at my profile, nobody messages. But, I'm usually pretty tired when I'm scouring this site and really I've just added you to my favorites so I can message you later. Why didn't you message me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Why yes, on Friday I am (how Descartes of you). But that pretty much goes for Saturday through Thursday too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Despite any appearances to the contrary, I'm actually an underdog and always have been.
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