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44 New Orleans, LA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 2
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Moved to New Orleans from Manhattan for new job in June. Am originally from Seattle and have lived up and down the east coast (Manhattan, DC, Boston) since college on the east coast.

I like going to alternative/indie music shows, parties, running clubs, waterskiing, good restaurants, and traveling.

I have tested INTP/ENTP on Meyers Briggs -- but am fairly outgoing and socially comfortable in new situations. I like to think that my friends and family think of me as someone who is considerate, kind, and generous as a person, putting them first before other demands in life. That matters to me more than anything else.

For my occupation, I work in mergers & acquisitions for a large telecom company. In addition to interests mentioned above, I spend other free time working out or in a couple of social running clubs (am conscious about staying in shape -- former competitive, Varsity Div I track and cross-country athlete), as well as traveling to see friends and family.

What am I looking for? In terms of qualities, living in the moment and being a fun person is an important attribute for me, after being a warm person who is considerate and kind, thinking of others often. After that, good conversation, listening, and sense of humor. My date should know how to have a good time, and be past playing games. Straightforward and honest are big pluses. Finally -- drive, passion, and intelligence are pluses. Long list I know, and ultimately I'm looking for a great person with all of their flaws and imperfections, and not a perfect list.
What I’m doing with my life
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See summary above
I’m really good at
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Listening, making people laugh, laughing, articulating, analyzing, running, irreverently flirting, reading people.......
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look 33, not 43, but current younger looks were paid for by growing up as Butters from South Park, looking at age 13 like I was in kindergarten. Also, my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Kooks, Arctic Monkeys, Alt-J, Young The Giant, Grouplove (the band), Daily Show, Colbert Report, ESPN, SportsCenter, New York Times, Economist,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family
Alternative Nation on XM
Working out
A good bourbon, with ginger beer mixed in.
Good health
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what life will be like as a newcomer living in New Orleans
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night. See summary above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once attempted to playfully and privately poke fun at George Stephanopolous in a gym, telling a nearby female friend that "Snuffaluffagus" (moniker for Stephanopolous) was totally working the chicks (when he was younger), only for my female friend to inform me with a happy smirk that he was right next to me and in a not very amused way just heard every word of that.....*busted*
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