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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 24
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I enjoy being relatively active & life to me is sharing activities together: hiking, cooking, movies, reading, travel, and other happy life experiences.

I hope I can find someone with whom we enjoy being together, feel relaxed and happy. I hope we can understand each other; maybe we have a similar way of thinking/doing things.

My ideal woman for the long term is helpful, honest, understanding, emotional (in a good way) and warm. (Kind, considerate, humble, patient, & can compromise in conflicts.) I gravitate towards genuine people.

My ideal woman is a little funny but not always talking to friends (esp. on cell phone), or always expects us to be talking. Being happy when talking, or just quiet together walking down the street holding each other, is the girl for me.

I'm a good person, loving and supportive. I hope to find someone similar; loving, kind, gentle, and patient. I enjoy nature and the outdoors (hiking) more than shopping. If you like to spend all your time shopping, then we are not right for each other.

I also enjoy physical intimacy as part of a relationship. If you don't like to have sex at least 2 or 3 times per week, then we are not right for each other. To be direct.

I want a woman that has natural insight / high EQ.

I'm not really looking for a Christian woman (again). I have no religion, no belief about which God is more true and better than the other ones. I hope you are the same, moral ok but not too religious! ... (I might consider a 'soft'/lite Christian for the short-term if we have a good personality fit in other ways.)

It seems I have a long list of ideals that I have learned I want/don't want, but I am adaptable. I haven't found perfect yet but still had great relationships. So let's just meet briefly and follow the nature. Thanks!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a graduate degree in business, HR management, however I want to do a different career. I am a nursing student.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, being supportive.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-at least 1 close friend/confidant
-tasty food
-Nature, trees, clean air, bird noises & hiking in it! (Quiet deep snow-shoeing is also fun).
-Exploration of some kind: new restaurants, movies, museums, travel, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The 6 things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up for almost anything.

Maybe hiking, reading, jogging, exploring somewhere, movie, at a meetup, trying some new restaurant, spending time with a friend, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have never had a successful relationship start from OkC ... but I still try here. Probably my lame-o self profile, but simple & direct.
You should message me if
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I message you!

Also, I hate long, drawn out online chats that result in nothing, or when we finally meet we figure out quickly that actually this person isn't right. I would prefer to just meet briefly in person than waste time sending a volley of messages. I will make it as convenient for you as possible, the place & time of your choice. My ideal first meet is a short walk in some interesting, public place so you don't have to be concerned about safety.