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30 M Menlo Park, CA

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
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Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I enjoy being relatively active & life to me is sharing activities together: hiking, cooking, movies, reading, travel, and other happy life experiences.

I hope I can find someone with whom we enjoy being together, feel relaxed and happy. I hope we can understand each other; maybe we have a similar way of thinking/doing things.

My ideal woman for the long term is helpful, honest, understanding, emotional (in a good way) and warm. (Kind, considerate, humble, patient, & can compromise in conflicts.) I gravitate towards genuine people.

My ideal woman is a little funny but not always talking to friends, or always expects us to be talking. (I usually only have 1 to 3 friends in whichever city I'm living at the time.) Being happy when talking, or just quiet together walking down the street holding each other, is the girl for me.

I'm a good person, loving and supportive. I hope to find someone similar; loving, kind, gentle, and patient. I enjoy nature and the outdoors (hiking) more than shopping. If you like to spend all your time shopping, then we are not right for each other.

I also enjoy physical intimacy as part of a relationship. If you don't like to have sex at least 2 or 3 times per week, then we are not right for each other.

I want a woman that has natural insight / high EQ.

I don't want a Christian woman (again). I have no religion, no belief about which God is more true and better than the other ones. I hope you are the same, moral ok but not religious! ... (I might consider a 'soft'/lite Christian for the short-term if we have a good personality fit in other ways.)

I have a graduate degree in business, HR management, however I want to do a different career. I am a student again.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying again, nursing, career change from HR.
I’m really good at
Listening, being supportive.
The six things I could never do without
-at least 1 close friend/confidant
-tasty food
-Nature, trees, clean air, bird noises & hiking in it! (Quiet deep snow-shoeing is also fun).
-Exploration of some kind: new restaurants, movies, museums, travel, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The 6 things I could never do without, + 7 & 8.
On a typical Friday night I am
Up for almost anything.

Maybe hiking, reading, jogging, exploring somewhere, movie, at a meetup, trying some new restaurant, spending time with a friend, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have never had a successful relationship start from OkC ... but I still try here. Probably my lame-o self profile, but simple & direct.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I message you!

Also, I hate long, drawn out online chats that result in nothing, or when we finally meet we figure out quickly that actually this person isn't right. I would prefer to just meet briefly in person than waste time sending a volley of messages. I will make it as convenient for you as possible, the place & time of your choice. My ideal first meet is a short walk in some interesting, public place so you don't have to be concerned about safety.