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32 Garden Grove, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 19
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Don't worry I'm not one of those men who get all bitter and butt hurt if you don't message back. Haha. People get busy and well life happens, or some women are into a more conventional brand of man. But if you like to get a little weird, then maybe we'll get along.

How am I weird? I used to set my watch to 12:15 when I was a kid because that was when lunch was almost over and it was the year of the Magna Carta. I thought I was so cool :B
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I used to make video games. An interesting chapter in my life that I've slammed shut. I went corporate for a while but now I'm back at a smaller company and life's been good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really not that good at any one thing but I'm o.k. at a lot of little things. Jack of trades a master of none.

I'm mediocre at martial arts, math, video games, hand gun shooting, fiddling around with things, programming etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People can usually tell when the wheels are turning in my head. They know I'm up to something but they don't know what :P

I appear to be random... but I'm not. Most things aren't random, they just appear to be that way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Zombie stuff, post apocalyptic stuff, comic books, I like the Marvel Movie Universe but I think the writing in DC comic book universe is better, heresy I know, I liked the first season of the walking dead, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, lots of action movies, a couple korean movies, Bittersweet life, OldBoy, Keanu Reeves movies, I like some stupid movies, Not another teen movie, Don't be a menace, I hear white chicks is awful to the point of comedy, house of cards, lots of documentaries,

GAME OF THRONES, man I love that show.

Adventure Land, Mean Girls, Firefly, Justice League, Batman the Animated Series, Sherlock

Pod Casts: Freakonomics, Joe Rogan Experience, The Monday Morning Podcast with Bill Burr, NPR

Stand up comedy, Jim Jeffries, Bill Hicks, Louie C.K., Doug Stanhope, Bill Burr,

Nero, Major Lazer, Afrojack, Armin Van Buren, Ferry Corsten, Boyz Noise, Stanton Warriors, BT, Tiesto, lots of EDM, Flux Pavilion

# Shadows Fall # All That Remains # As I Lay Dying # Killswitch Engage (Pre-Howard) # Heaven Shall Burn # Children of Bodom # Norther # Scar Symmetry # Within Temptation # Trivium # Muse # Iron Maiden # Best Band # Welfare Recipients # Iced Earth # Pulse Ultra # Soilwork (pre Stabbing The Drama) # In Flames (pre Soundtrack to your life) # gODHEAD # 30 seconds to Mars # TOOL # A Perfect Circle # Smashing Pumpkins # Marilyn Manson # The Misfits Danzig and Graves Era # Thrice # Elseworth # Avenged Sevenfold # Postal Service Clerks, Mallrats, Chasing Amy, As Good As It Gets, Battle Royale, The Killer, Dark City, Memento, Dr. Strangelove, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Boondock Saints, SLC Punk, Blood Sport, Kickboxer, Buffalo 66', Brother, Equilibrium, Jin-Roh, Monty Python, Goodfellas, Ghost World, Heat, Brother, Berserk Anime Series, Battle Royale, Kill Bill, Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs, OldBoy, stranger than fiction, casino royale, say anything, Collateral
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could say the obligatory food, shelter, work, friends and family but everyone says that and that's lazy and boring talk anyways.

1. my furry little babies, aka my dogs. Love them to death.

3. Hot showers, I thank god every time I have one. They feel oh so good.

4. Bleu Cheese Burgers, quite possibly the most perfect food in the world.

5. Driving manual transmission cars, nothing like rowing your own gears in a car.

6. Being around good people and sharing good, happy times together.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My current project, my work is important to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my buddies, my sister, watching a movie, walking my dog, having a good work out, getting an ice cream cone, cleaning up my living area, etc
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had to learn how to be a human being in a more deliberate way. I think it's more profound and more valuable when some one can explain and break down why they do things rather than a person who is a natural.

Ask any question and I'll answer the best I can. I'm a pretty open person.
You should message me if
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People who like talking. People who aren't afraid to be themselves, good, bad or ugly.

Message me if you have a sense of humor, silly, jacked up, or whatever. If it's funny I'll laugh.

Movie buffs, and geeks/nerds will be welcomed.