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MoriNoYosei

21 / F / Bisexual / Seeing someone

Tampere, Finland

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 5:53am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
The short version:

I'm an obsessive, overanalysing, unemotional, bossy, insensitive, antisocial, frigid bitch. :)

The long version:

I'm the sort of person who gets very passionate about things. If I find something I like, I'm likely to get really invested in it, and for a long time. I rarely get passing whims. It's the same with people: I have few friends but they're extremely important to me. I'll choose quality over quantity any time.

I'm also a very rational person. I tend to be pragmatic and a bit perfectionistic ...oh who am I kidding? I'm the worst perfectionist you'll ever meet. I always have to be in complete control over my life - and everyone else's life, if possible - and I'm sort of neurotic about things like details, patterns, symmetry, and order. Though my room's still a complete mess! :D

I tend to be rather blunt and straightforward with people and I also expect honesty from others. There's nothing I hate more than two-faced people who lie to your face and then badmouth you behind your back. I'd always rather hear the truth, however painful, than lies that are supposed to make you feel good.

I'm realizing that this self-summary is probably making me look like a very unpleasant person. That's just my brutal honesty kicking in; I've never been good at "marketing" myself. However, I'm generally a laid-back, friendly, and open person who's nice to everyone who's nice to me. And people keep telling me I'm funny, so I guess there must be some truth behind it.

I identify as panromantic asexual/demisexual (eli jos seksiä etsit, niin etsit väärästä paikasta), meaning that I can get attracted to anyone, regardless of their sex/gender, but I don't want to have sex with them - at least if I'm not in love with them. Maybe not even then; I wouldn't know, since I've never been in love.

I'm an avid supporter of GSM (gender and sexual minority) rights. And women's rights. And men's, too. Basically, I support equality in every sense of the word. Equality and personal freedom are the most important ideals that I hold onto, and everyone should have the right to them.
What I’m doing with my life
Wasting it, basically. I spend most of my free time on the internet, consuming fanart and fanfiction about shows, movies and books I like. I also create my own fanworks. Tumblr is like a second home to me. I don't do Facebook or other social media because I'm an antisocial bastard. I'd like to be a doctor (probably a forensic one, because dead patients would be a lot easier to handle and more grateful than living ones) in the future.
I’m really good at
Procrastinating. And avoiding my responsibilities. I'm REALLY good at those. :D I'm also at least moderately good at drawing, writing, learning anything I'm interested in (biology, chemistry, psychology, languages), puzzles like sudoku, Rubik's cube (though I don't know if I'm good at it, I just know how to solve it) and such, things that require logical thinking. I also like to think that I'm pretty skilled in the art of sarcasm!

I'm bad at all kinds of sports, small talk, and reading people.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my black, short, curly mop of a hair. If they get to the talking distance, they usually mistake my initial shyness and awkwardness as hostility, since I don't bat my eyelashes and smile bashfully. So I usually make a bad first impression on people - luckily there are those who can look past that and want to take time to get to know me before judging me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: LotR trilogy, Harry Potter series, Good Omens, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Hunger Games trilogy, Ten Little Niggers, Hannibal trilogy, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's and Stephen King's works.

Movies: LotR, X-Men movies, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Dark Knight, The Avengers, Third Star, Brokeback Mountain, Hawking, Let the Right One In, Tim Burton's and Hayao Miyazaki's works, Disney classics. Eagerly awaiting The Hobbit.

Shows: Sherlock, Granada's Sherlock Holmes series, Cabin Pressure (a BRILLIANT radio sitcom by John Finnemore), Game of Thrones, Supernatural, Doctor Who, Torchwood, House MD, Dexter, Criminal Minds, The Big Bang Theory, Mythbusters.

Music: Finnish metal (Nightwish, Stam1na, CoB, Norther, Brother Firetribe), older rock/metal (KISS, Scorpions, Def Leppard, Aerosmith, Queen, Rainbow, Dire Straits), and assorted bands of other genres (Depeche Mode, Simon and Garfunkel, Green Day, Marina and the Diamonds).

Games: Pokémon (grew up with them, loving all the generations), Legend of Zelda, Heroes of Might and Magic, Phoenix Wright, Professor Layton, Portal.

Food: Yes please.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, family, computer, books, pencils, and paper.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sherlock Holmes. No, really, that's pretty much all I think about these days. I've been obsessed with Sherlock for a few years now, and it doesn't seem to be going away anytime soon... That series also rekindled my love in all things Holmes, from the books to Granada series. There's just something about the world's only consulting detective and his century-lasting friendship with his dear Watson! <3

Besides, I always identify with the intelligent and socially inept characters - Holmes, House (well, he basically is a Holmes adaptation), Spencer Reid (Criminal Minds), Sheldon Cooper (The Bing Bang Theory), etc.

And I guess I also sometimes think about life, the universe, and everything. :D
On a typical Friday night I am
On the computer. I'm lame like that, and I'm not even ashamed to admit it! \o/ I rarely go clubbing, though dancing is fun, even if I most likely suck at it - everyone else in the bar is probably too drunk to care, or think that I'm drunk, so I can be as ridiculous as I want to be! So yeah, I don't really drink. Not because I'm an teetotaller or anything, I just don't like the stuff.

(A funny thing I just noticed: a teetotaller is called 'absolutisti' in Finnish, and I just translated it to 'absolutist' without giving it much of a thought. Then I started questioning it and decided to look it up... Turns out 'absolutist' means someone who's pro-dictatorship. Well, I'm certainly not that either, but it must have looked like a pretty weird reason not to drink alcohol... :'D)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think I might some kind of a bibliophile - words turn me on more than people. Reading a good fanfic is to me pretty much what I assume sex is to sexual people, only without having to consider anyone's feelings or any possible consequences, or deal with taxing and restricting relationships. \o/
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–24
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
Actually, don't do that at all. I'm pretty much at the limit of my social capacity - which isn't massive to begin with. And I have lots of other things to do. So I don't have the energy or time to start any new conversations, and not answering messages just makes me feel impolite and somehow guilty.

If you feel an overwhelming need to write to me, then I won't stop you, but please don't be offended if I never answer or if it takes me a month to do that.