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I am geeky, lost in thought, and Introverted

Morlock

29 / m / bisexual / Available

Northampton, Massachusetts, United States

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Ethnicity Black

Height 5' 11" (1.80m).

Looking For New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals

Smokes No

Drinks Sometimes

Drugs Never

Religion Other and somewhat serious about it

Sign Libra and it's fun to think about

Education Dropped out of college/university

Job Hospitality / Travel

Income $20,000-$30,000

Kids Likes children, but doesn't want any

Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats

Languages English (Fluently)

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I am one of the rare Black Nerds (Geekian Negronus), and am pretty proud of that. You can usually find me in front of some type of video screen... my computer, a tv playing video games, or watching some serial tv show. I'm introverted like all hell, and my favorite thing to do is to curl up with a good graphic novel or my DS and lose myself in a narrative...preferably with someone interesting who is doing the same thing.

I'm pretty tall, pretty big boned (i'm overweight. or, as i'm instructed to refer to it, "cuddly"), and wear glasses. i usually shave my head, and slouch in an attempt to not look imposing.

I am a living contradiction, because i don't talk all that much but require work that makes me interact with as many people as possible through out the day.

I have a strange sense of humor, and if i get to know you well enough i can babble if not stopped. I'm told my ranting and raving about things are entertaining to watch.

What I'm doing with my life

I am in a Polyamourus relationship with my wife of 3 years. I'm currently working at a hotel at the front desk. Its been almost a year since I started and it seems to suit me. i'd love to open a video game/geek store in the pioneer valley, the only problem is figuring out how to make it profitable. plus, you know. all the money is magic and the the magic has kind of run out.

I'm really good at

Listening, gaming, kissing, bear hugs, discussing various things, singing. Remembering trivial facts about superheroes. um... getting people to relax. Logical arguments.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

How big i am versus how small I present myself. I learned a long time ago that many people are afraid of large black guys, so i try to make myself look as small as possible to counter-act that.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Torso, Bone, Planetary, Box Office Poison, Gotham Central ... pretty much anything by Brian Bendis or Alex Robinson. oooh, The Watchmen. there are more. I have a very large comic addiction.

Movies... I love trilogies. Indiana Jones, Back to the Future, Star Wars Eps 4-6. Spider-man 1 and 2 are great too. Batman Begins. The list goes on. What i really get into are cartoons: batman the animated series, Spider-man from '93. Gargoyles, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Justice League/JLU. Amazing animation, storylines that just don't stop... stuff that is made for everyone, not just for kids.

Music: I have an off and on love affair with Ben Folds. I like most stuff that was made in the early to mid 90s, especially alternative and hip hop (read: stuff that is or sounds like Tribe Called Quest) and New Jack Swing. that and covers. most of my favorite songs are covers of songs that i was always meh about.

Food is kind of weird for me. i have a limited diet. pretty much just chicken, pasta, some fruits, and random junk food. don't ask me how i survive...I don't know either.

The six things I could never do without

a Computer with an internet connection, Video games, comic books, friends, silence, sex. it doesn't have to be in that order.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life. where i'm going. where my friends are, how they are doing. I think a lot about self-improvement. How i can be a better person. I think about current events (i'm a complete NPR addict...i listen to the news all the time) and how it affects my life and the lives of those around me.

recently i've been thinking more about self-respect and how that affects your interactions with others. how making what you need important can actually strengthen a bond with someone else. that and sometimes i think about boobs. they're interesting!

On a typical Friday night I am

Watching something on my computer, playing a game, reading. I might be over a friends house hanging out (it DOES happen at times...rarely. But still!) or cooking dinner for my house...something i try to do every so often.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

Its hard for me to trust someone face to face. i can share anything i want over emails, IM, whatever, but when i actually see someone unless i know i can completely trust them its hard for me to be my actual self. it throws people off because i act more gregarious and outgoing at face value and when they get to know me better i get more and more introverted and reclusive.

You should message me if

well, i guess if you're bored and want to talk to someone like me? if you are kind of a homebody that would rather stay in reading under a blanket than go out clubbing. if you are the type that likes having complex discussions about how superman's powers work, or about politics. i guess message me if i seem interesting and you would like to know more.

I'm on the computer constantly. If i seem interesting to you, then send me an email. I like talking to new people online :-)

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