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30 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
When drinking
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a passionate, playful, grounded, fun loving midwestern guy. With me what you see is pretty much what you get. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm proud of that! I love my life, and through all of it: the good and the bad, the thrilling and the mundane I try to find joy, fun and love... isn't that the whole point?!

I've put in a lot of work to live a life beyond my wildest dreams (it doesn't just magically happen right?). I am not looking for someone to complete me or for me to complete them. I'm looking for someone who has the strength and maturity to live a life they love for themselves, but by my side.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to NYC eight years ago to pursue my love of theatre and so far I've been very fortunate in that aspect.

Other than that I can be found doing stupid things to make my friends laugh, finding any excuse I can to be in nature, traveling as much as possible, going to amusement parks (love them), writing run on sentences, finding the best food spots in the city... the list goes on and on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh (often times at my own expense)
drunkenly singing Whitney Houston at karaoke
seeing both sides of an argument
pretty fricken good at napping
asserting myself
finding amazing things I love and sharing them with the people I love
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get lots of comments on my lips
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I love anything David Sedaris. The Alchemist. Running With Scissors. I Am Not Myself These Days

Movies: Shawshank Redemption, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Midnight in Paris, Zoolander, Amelie, Eat Pray Love, Toy Story 3 (When they all grabbed hands at the end with no words? Forget about it. I was a sobbing mess), Tommy Boy

TV: Modern Family, The Daily Show, South Park, Family Guy, Modern Marvels, How It's Made, Unique Eats, Little Britain, The Comeback, Kid Nation (if you know what that show even is you get points)

Music: John Mayer, Sara Barielles, Sia, Robyn, Mumford & Sons, Ben Folds, Adele, Michael Buble, Jason Mraz, Rascal Flatts, Ingrid Michaelson, Sam Sparro

Food: I pretty much love it all so instead I'll tell you some of my favorite things I've eaten: Chicken and Waffles at Amy Ruth's, Levain Bakery's chocolate chip cookie, Katz' Deli Reuben, The corn on the cob at Cafe Habana, Chocoholic twist at Amy's Bread... I'm basically a fat kid in a skinny kid's body
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Open communication
Amazing food
Amusement parks (I'm a bit of a dork about them)
Random adventures
My friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How many road side attractions I would like to visit on a cross country road trip I'm dreaming of, food, what adventure I want to go on next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either going out with friends or staying in and hanging out with them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm terrified of carnies... and unibrows
I love to garden
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
It's all about BALANCE for me. I'm looking for someone I can have quick witted banter with, along with deep Oprah chats. Someone who wants to cuddle and watch a movie on the couch, but could also drop everything at a moment's notice to go on a random adventure. A friend... that I can't keep my hands off of. More than anything, a sweet handsome, mature, good hearted man who laughs at me and himself. DAS IT, das what I'm looking for! ;)

ps nature lovers/outdoorsmen get extra credit.