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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:57am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an Ohio via Miami transplant. I take good care of myself and alll the business that happens to come creeping into my life. I have a lot of traditional values, a lot of emotional intelligence and take pride in being well spoken, considerate and in having self-awareness. I am what you might describe as a practical hippie. Sensitive but not fragile, deep but not pedantic.
My general inclination is to look beneath the surface of things towards a deeper with everyday books or mainstream media I find them sometimes shallow and unappealing....maybe overly simplistic with black and white way of thinking...not to examine the true texture of things, events, our world and each other. I think all of these things take some time to come to a more full understanding of. We as humans are very complicated. I am interested in a lot of different things but not really a scholar. My primary path is in seeking my own internal light and maybe some form of connection with the greater forces that sustain our awareness and being. It would be cool to meet a woman that can really relate to this.
I am very active, enthusiastic, but also introspective and thoughtful. I am not rigid, self-righteous or obsessed with fitness but like to stay in shape for the benefits and clarity that it brings. More nowadays, staying in shape takes the form of fun (hikes/frisbee/Swimming/Motorcycle)
I love being outdoors, exploring and also hanging out with friends and entertaining, talking all night into the wee hours.
I am looking for a vibrant connection that is grounded in trusting, honoring and growing in bold new directions together and individually.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for real connections
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting. Taking care of business.
Creating the Seattle Thaw!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hair is gray-in the sexy way, not the "old man" way :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Matrix of course. Fight Club. Amoros perros. Being John Malkovitch. Books I like ...all of Castenada's stuff Every dam book :) World War Z, Stranger in a strange land. Music: I am not real hip but am very open. I get a great lift out of Coldplay. Maybe some moody mellow beats to keep things rolling, I love Rage against the machine, and Eddie Vedder, anything with some soul and emotion like the Cowboy Junkies, Led Zeppelin, Deep Forest, Enigma, Vince Guaraldi
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
real communication
authentic responses
social tact
self care/awareness
a lady with some class and depth
My ideals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
meeting the girl of my dreams, hugging her and making her glow. Finding the last first kiss someday...closing out this cupid file and moving into the next phase of life.
Bringing heaven to earth in my own small ways.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well it's always up in the air ;)
hopefully with you-someplace cozy and alive!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Will spill my guts if you give me time. I am the former world Dig-Dug champ, high score of 500K ;)
Just got into TV a tiny little bit (Zombies/Fargo)
peanut butter has to be chunky, that's just all there is to it.
Sacred cows make sacred hamburgers ;)
I sort of have a thing for a lady with high boots either leather/suede or even furry ones.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are cool, down to Earth...sense of humor and not taking self too seriously are great starts :). If you like sipping red wine by candle light, soft music and long talks.
You think hearing aids are sexy
You still think that sex is sacred... you are a person with some depth and perhaps with a taste for things that are real.
You are willing to put effort into getting to know a new person, to provide meaningful exchange of ideas and to be consistant and clear in communication.
Looking for the real deal this time :) I'm here looking for the relationship that will go to the next level and not in a hurry.