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21 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–34
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:21am
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
When drinking
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Polish (Okay)
My self-summary
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My profile says I don't message back often. This is true, but mostly because I get an astounding amount of messages saying nothing but "what's up" or "why haven't we had sex yet."

So don't do that.

If you dig me, let me know. I'm not very into playing hard to get. If we have over a 80% match, chances are you should message me.

If you're into not being a bad person and checking your privilege you should probably message me.

If you're a stand up comedian probably don't message me.

Poly identified, but currently partnered, besotted and enamored with the excellent Rhyming-Anarchy

Demisexual, so unless you're in for a lot, don't bother.

About me: A bit of a difficult thing to say. I suppose I'm what the stereotype would call alternative or quirky.

I consume and criticize pop culture, go to not enough poetry slams, blog a bit, write a bit, read zines and get emotional over concepts like "productive tension" and "radical vulnerability". I study science and global health and equity. I hang out in anarchist, queer, poly and radical communities.

I think that quirky is a rather dull class though, don't you? Anyone who can be so easily summed up is probably boring, and I like to think I am not boring.

For the sake of the Internet however, and for the sake of communicating the complexity of a person via the page:
I like to phrase it like this: I like a lot of things and get nerdy about a lot of things. I get passionate.

I am always in the active process of decolonizing my mind and breaking free of societal structures and biases I have. Let me know if I upset or offend you.

Queer is a better word than bisexual for me.

I'm currently focusing on two of my passions, studying the human mind and process, both as a human biology and psychology student, and as an endless observer and listener. And education, in helping run a sex ed centre.

When I grow up I want to do public health outreach, focusing on mental health or sex ed.

I'm a strong personality. I make myself known, and I'll converse with you and do a bit of debating. I like hearing opinions and having my mind changed. I will call your bluffs and catch your shit and be a bit of a brat, know its for the sake of learning, both about the topic and about you.

There's not much I like more than learning a new person.

I like educating and learning and being told new things and being corrected.

I like listening to slam poetry that makes me want to destroy everything I've ever written.

I like to write everything I've ever destroyed.

I like walking around the city and feeling that buzz of possibility.

I'm a work in progress.

I gave up a long time ago on being aloof.

The main thing is I try not to take myself too seriously. I can be very silly and that's important to me.

I love thinking about how people work and I love stories and factoids more than I love history. I love clothes that you can feel the owner on and abandoned journals and old pictures.
I like abandoned buildings and full bars and anything and everything that screams it's personality.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently a human biology and psychology student at the Univeristy of Toronto, planning to go into social work or health promotion. Ideally I want to run a community health education centre.

Running a Sex Ed Centre.

Working at a library

Being really really over the psychiatric/psychology community

Always wanting to write and perform more poetry.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping people. Giving advice, talking, explaining feelings. Over analyzing television. Procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would actually be REALLY interested to find out,

I'd guess my speech impediment. I pronounce "r"s as between and L and H
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lolita, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Harry Potter, Firefly, Dr Horrible's Sing-along blog. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Italian food, Japanese food, Orphan Black, I like Augusten Burroughs and have a love/hate relationship with David Sedaris. I adore Malcolm Gladwell. I've been looking through books I loved when I was twelve lately, A Series of Unfortunate Events, and Artemis Fowl namely. I'd forgotten how good those are. I read a bit of theatre and poetry, and write a bit as well. Mostly slam poetry.

My music taste goes through two cycles. Listening to The Mountain Goats, and not listening to The Mountain Goats.

I have also developed a The Hold Steady problem.

Those two bands are in my blood for the most part now.

When not John Darnielle, it's mostly Amanda Palmer, Cosmo Jarvis, Leonard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Beats Antique, Florence and The Machine, Ingrid Michaelson, Childish Gambino, Janelle Monae, Nicki Minaj, Deafheaven, Shad, Motion City Soundtrack, Frank Turner, Deathgrips, and assorted other hipster crap.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the people around me are thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with friends, or studying. I'm a bit of a homebody, but I'm out with friends a few times a week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I worry about my cat's poop a lot.
You should message me if
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You have more to say than "hey"