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31 Huntsville, AL Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Jul 1
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey! I'm a geeky romantic philosopher jester and some other labels. I socialize, watch movies and nerdy shows, tinker with a few hobbies like my aquarium and designing games, and spend too much time on my computer. I've never married, and have no kids. I keep a 20 gallon aquarium full of little lovable fishy critters and also want to get a cat sooner or later. I'm very devoted to my tribe of family and close friends. I am constantly soaking up knowledge in every discipline. At the very least its made me pretty killer at trivia night. I just have this deep need to understand the world. Damn I miss the beach!

My spiritual beliefs are just ideas and constantly shift. I don't fit any single religion or philosophy. I was once catholic but am now more or less agnostic. I keep an open mind and will listen to any rational thought. I often think of faith outside the concept of religion.

I'm a lightweight social drinker. Just 1 or 2 drinks and I'm good :P I don't do drugs and can't be with someone that does. I've never been and never will be a hippie pothead.

All of my friends are artists and nerds. Not a big sports fan but I love to go to hockey games! I can't stand football, don't even mention it around me. I have a mild interest in books, and have stuck mostly to sci-fi. I visit Wikipedia every day. I -love- movies of most any genre, especially the cerebral kind. I'm not a "car guy" but I know enough about them to get by. I don't do concerts or clubs anymore. If you're into camping and hiking, I would definitely join you.

I'm trying to date a little bit more before I settle down, but if it just seems right, I won't stop fate. And on the topic of kids, I would like to have a couple, but not for a couple more years at least. But I'm 31, so I guess I better get crackin on that whole family thing, huh?

I'm mildly fascinated with personality typology and last tested as an INFJ, but that scale is really really outdated, so take it with a grain of salt.

Bananas are technically berries.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Independent contractor courier, I want to phase into freelance programming, but really I just want to make my own media
- I also run a fledgling online toy business for supplemental income
- Used to be an 8-5 office slave, an intern, a waiter, delivery guy, and walmart stocker, and I'm kind of looking for a girl that's been through this sort of gauntlet too
- I'm done with career paths, cubicles, bosses, work schedules, capitalist companies, all that crap
- I try to help out my friends and family whenever I can muster the energy
- Slowly creeping toward a contented existence
- Probably buying a property in the county some day and building a life "off the grid" there
- Seeking out new interests or perfecting the ones I have
- Exploring the world and the mind
- Tinkering with nerdy stuff
- Procrastinating :P
- I'm very fascinated by metallurgy and gemology, so maybe I'll become ye olde blacksmithe, that'd kick ass. I kinda sorta have this dream of making my own wedding bands
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, getting along with strangers, pinball, video games, problem solving, puzzles, turning debates into fistfights (just kidding!), learning new skills quickly, aquariums, amateur drawing, science, spotting good people... I dunno I'm pretty good at whatever I put my mind to!

I am NOT good at cooking, yardwork, dogsitting, remembering trivial to-do lists, remembering names, car maintenance, letting go of my seething hatred of everything about football, etc
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall and slender with sharp features and immediately friendly. I reluctantly wear glasses and the length of my hair changes with the seasons. I try to have a laid back demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS - Dune, Terry Pratchet, Lovecraft, Ender's Game, Wikipedia, Battle Angel Alita, those books about the wizarding children whatever its called.

MOVIES - Guardians of the Galaxy, Mad Max Fury Road, Dredd, Avengers, Iron Man, Dark Knight, Tron, Paprika, Lost in Translation, Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Sin City, Pandorum, Cube, Hellraiser, Cabin in the Woods, Dark Crystal, The Descent, Spirited Away, Serenity, 7 Samurai, Legend, Princess Bride, Hot Rod, Aliens, and so many more, just ask!

SHOWS - Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Neon Genesis Evangelion, The Office, 30 Rock, Community, Documentaries, Netflix, Battlestar Galactica, Sarah Conner Chronicles, Firefly, Justified, Claymore, Berserk.

MUSIC - Grimes, Flunk, Massive Attack, Kidneythieves, old NIN, Florence + the Machine, Ellie Goulding, Killswitch Engage, Tool, How To Destroy Angels, old Nelly Furtado, Echo Slightly, Paramore, Akira Yamaoka (Silent Hill soundtracks), MS MR, 90's alternative. If we match on music, I will be extremely surprised, so don't worry about it if we don't. Just please don't listen to rap or country.

FOOD - Anything with chicken, chinese, italian, mexican, gumbo, chili, BBQ, Carrabbas, salads, southern food. I like a very limited selection of sushi and other fishy dishes. I can cook a few things like spaghetti, chili, grilled burgers, you know the easy stuff. I prefer to date other omnivores!

GAMES - Portal, Bioshock, Left 4 Dead, Tomb Raider, Halo, Zelda, Sim City, Settlers of Catan, Risk, Carcassonne, Poker, Minecraft, Dominion, Scrabble, FF7, FF9, Lego Creationary
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- my tribe of close friends and family
- steamy showers
- challenges!
- my gadgets
- coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Well lately I've been obsessed with sociological history, like what if we should go back to being hunter-gatherers? I wonder what heaven would be like if it actually existed and whether our minds would want to exist for eternity. I wonder why things are the way they are. I think about my projects like my programming, my games, my stories, all the things I want to create in my lifetime. I think about my future and how I'm going to build it. Maybe I'm an artist at heart, I ain't no cog in your machine, man! See this is what goes on in my head, deep thinking followed by humorous self-deprecation. I think about what my soulmate will be like, whether she will resonate with me, or will she be different and fill in the gaps of my life?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now, I work Friday nights. BUMMER! I go to the bar after work sometimes to unwind, that's enough excitement for me. Ideally, I would like to free up my Friday nights so that I can go play boardgames with my friends again :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've collected dragons since high school. I know its cliche but they mean something to me. And I keep every movie ticket stub I get.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- are within 50 miles, I just can't do the long distance thing
- are kind-hearted (this is a necessity!)
- are genuine and honest
- are a bright, passionate, geeky dork
- respect your body, you don't waste it
- have a great sense of humor and can take/use sarcasm
- are free of controlling parents!
- aren't looking for just a rich nerd, that's DEFINITELY not me
- like deep abstract conversations about this silly crazy world
- keep great hygiene!!!!
- are laid back, but can be mature
- appreciate all living things and like pets!