Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a high achieving, fun loving, hardworking man with a ton of
Midwest charm and honesty. I've been called a refreshing change
from how many act on OKCupid ♫
My parents have been together well over 40 years. My family back in
MN is full of veterans who love one woman, their children and their
I'm one good apple that may have landed in CA but still not too far
from the tree.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In just the last two years I've deployed to Afghanistan with the CA
National Guard, was wounded, fully recovered, got back to my
civilian career, got out of the part time military, raised a puppy,
bought a horse ranch and adopted a couple horses. That's
Wait.. I just went back to college on the GI bill to complete a
Life just outside LA suits me just fine. I leave work and 10
traffic free minutes later I'm hearing my horses joyful welcome
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hard Work, fixing, building, maintaining things, cooking, humor and
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A Career that I love
2. Paying it forward donating time and money to worthy
3. Outdoors fun fishing, hiking, riding etc
4. A garage full of tools and vehicles.
5. Animals. Two horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Success in LA is all about desire and effort.
Meeting someone with mere temporary desire is typical LA and
turning down those hookups is easy. Finding someone who thinks a
relationship more than 5 miles away isn't too much effort is
No stranger to effort or commitment, I'm a home owning veteran of
two wars continuing his education while earning four times the
median, working out, riding and training two horses. I'm also just
as motivated about finding a real relationship, being a husband
(2nd time) and a father (first time).
Even an online dossier like that isn't enough in LA for anyone who
wants kids or won't be riding an electric scooter at Walmart while
I'm still riding fast horses.
Many online seem to expect a Ryan Gosling clone as easy as ordering
shoes off Amazon prime. Good luck with that!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a date or resting at home to be recharged for the rest of the
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you pique my interest I will reach out. Maybe do the same.
Despite the fact it's 2015 for some outdated reason even ambitious
independent women go from ignoring messages from moronic pervs to
silently viewing someone she wished had messaged her.
Instead of wishing I messaged you, why don't you just message me
Who are you looking for?
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