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38 / M / Straight / Single

Tacoma, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a reservist who recently returned from Afghanistan a little early. One broken bone, a purple heart and a few stitches later I am here in WA. My cast is now off and I will be back to 100% in a few months.

I will be in the Tacoma area 1-3 months. It's one month if I can do occupational therapy near home in CA. No, I'm not just looking for sex. After being downrange it would be nice just to get out on a fun date date with someone who knows the area.

Home for me is in CA but I am not a CA native. I stormed into California from Minnesota four years ago for a career move I couldn't refuse. The climate is great for an active outdoors type like me.

I'm a handful, bold and chivalrous in my own manner so forget the cliches. A dark horse or a red Ducati is just more my style
What I’m doing with my life
I enjoy a great civilian life and lucrative civilian career in aviation. I also serve part time in a CA National Guard Aviation unit.

When other guys are huddled by the TV curling 12oz beers I am probably paddling my kayak through the breakers or out for a ride.
I’m really good at
I can fix not only a gourmet meal but anything from an Italian ψ car at home to supersonic ✈ aircraft at work.
The first things people usually notice about me
Someone once asked if I was the stunt double in this Jim Carrey scene.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Jason AldeanBrantley GilbertZack Brown BandThe Rolling StonesMTBGordonCashAaron LewisAwolnation & more.

I don't watch TV often and when I do it isn't crap. Big Bang Theory , News, HGTV, Food Network, Outdoors.. Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations.

Diverse culinary interests.. Italian, sushi, BBQ and much more.
The six things I could never do without
Of course my family and friends come first but to answer the question....

1. A Career that I love
2. Giving back like serving in the CA ARNG
3. Outdoors fun Fishing, hiking etc
4. Like any guy my vehicles.
5. A garage full of tools like Tony Stark's house in Ironman.
6. Horses and a full size dog. I am adopting a couple horses from one of my favorite charities. TROTT-USA. ♞
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I am a reservist and a recently wounded veteran looking for a date over memorial day weekend.

It's kind of fucked up to hear thanks for what you do followed by..but I don't date military. It seems memorial day might as well just be national BBQ day to most people.

However back in CA in civilian life if I wear Armani and drive the Maserati the level of interest is high enough to get annoying.

Also annoying are those girls next door online with an attitude worse than the Orange County bikini model I dated only once because she was obnoxious.

I don't give an aviating coitus if your ego is so big it only fits on the internet. People like you are a dime a dozen.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't think any of my Friday nights are typical. Maybe hiking , fishing, sailing, wine tasting, riding a horse or dressed all GQ and headed out for elegant dining and entertainment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
With all the sugar coating peeled a way lot of men are just looking to hit it and run and a lot of women are only concerned with a mans looks and income. In all honesty... No, I'm not just looking for sex
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If you are like me and not the lowest common denominator of your gender.