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39 M Santa Clarita, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:03pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Minnesota born and raised with some time living in NY and overseas. I moved to CA in 2009. Every date in LA has told me my chivalry is refreshing and other men online get too lewd/forward. <- funny link.

Since 2005 it's been a combination of serving in the reserves part time with a successful full time civilian career. My start in the military was before 9-11 and since then it's included everywhere from a still smoking WTC @9-11 to Iraq and Afghanistan.

I don't think The Women of LA are all the same. So do me a favor and stop assuming a veteran must be a staunch conservative, have PTSD or be broke.

Having found both opportunity and success in public sector I'm as grateful as I am proud. However I know there are a lot of veterans in need and do my best to help since I've been downrange myself.

The sum of tall, fit and funny multiplied by a good career is a winner in the real world. So unlike most people online I wasn't compelled to lie on my profile.<-Click and read that OK Cupid Blog
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love my career in aerospace and spend my free time on outdoor adventure, fitness, my Horses, my pup ฅʕ••ʔฅ, fast car and motorcycle.

Those links are real footage of me or my furry minions.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at most things ending in 'manship like horsemanship, marksmanship and workmanship...

Ok.... After a 49 year old literally asked to "ride the manship" I really need to rewrite this..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Someone once thought I was the stunt rider in Yes Man. Sorry.. not my naked butt weaving through traffic..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A wide variety of music and here are some examples ready to play.

The Black Keys:Brantley Gilbert:Zack Brown Band:The Rolling Stones:Stevie Ray Vaughn:Awolnation

I know my way around my kitchen or to a good restaurant for Italian, sushi, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
Those are links to some of their best material ever..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course my family and friends come for things...
1. A Career that I love
2. Giving back like serving in the CA ARNG
3. Outdoors fun Fishing, hiking etc
4. Like any guy my vehicles.
5. A garage full of tools
6. My animals. Horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback .
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
There are two main groups on here. For some it's the official Californication FWB finder and for others LA's online trophy wife tryouts.

Going out with friends is always a nice break from the warped egos and distorted aspirations found in online dating.

After trying this site intermittently for 3 years with a year of that in Afghanistan I have come to one conclusion. Everyone is trying to date an unrealistic level above reality.

The obese broke guys email bombshells until their inbox is full. Meanwhile the bombshells and frequently even the "girl next door" expect a man with perfect looks, big income and living within 5 miles because traffic sucks.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday nights are not typical. If yours are I can fix that, if not feel free sit at home and pine away over false reality while I fire up the Maserati or Ducati to go meet someone with a brain and substance.

On nearly every other Friday morning I load my dog in the SUV and take him to dog beach.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In early 2013 playing "dodge rocket" in Afghanistan led to getting flown stateside for surgery. I've been back to 100% and my civilian life/career for a year now.

In that year I have dated a lot but prefer to be in a great relationship which is hard to find in the LA area.

A lot of dates have been using 4-5 year old photos. My main photo is coming up on 1 year old. In it I had gained back a lot of muscle lost while my arm was shattered and was at a lean 196.

Should I go the professional photo route now after putting even more muscle back on? Maybe wait until I hit a ripped 220 like that photo riding?

It seems nobody in LA reads this far in a profile or cares about character... just how you look.. Knowing that maybe I don't care.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not flaky and realize emailing someone you find interesting is better than being limited to only those who emailed you.