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40 M Santa Clarita, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:28am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Minnesota born and raised. With a few years living in NY and overseas I didn't just fall of the zamboni. A smart career move brought me to CA in 2009. Dates say my chivalry is refreshing and other men online get too forward.

I love my career in aerospace and spend my free time on outdoor adventure, fitness, my Horses, my pup ฅʕ••ʔฅ, fast car and motorcycle.

Since 2005 it's been a combination the reserves part time with a successful full time civilian career. My start in the military was before 9-11 and since then it's included everywhere from a still smoking WTC @9-11 to Iraq and Afghanistan. In December I'm done with the military.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After finding a lot of happiness working with my own horses I decided to volunteer with a charity for equestrian therapy for disabled children.

I've experienced opportunity and success in the private and public sector. I'm as grateful as I am proud. However I know there are a lot of veterans in need and do my best to help since I've been downrange myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at most things ending in 'manship like horsemanship, marksmanship and workmanship...

Ok.... After a 49 year old literally asked to "ride the manship" I really need to rewrite this..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Someone once thought I was the stunt rider in Yes Man. Sorry.. not my naked butt weaving through traffic..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A wide variety of music and here are some examples ready to play.

The Black Keys:Brantley Gilbert:Zack Brown Band:The Rolling Stones:Stevie Ray Vaughn:Awolnation

I know my way around my kitchen or to a good restaurant for Italian, sushi, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course my family and friends come for things...
1. A Career that I love
2. Giving back like serving in the CA ARNG
3. Outdoors fun Fishing, hiking etc
4. Like any guy my vehicles.
5. A garage full of tools
6. My animals. Horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback .
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
After trying this site intermittently for 3 years it seems everyone is trying to date an unrealistic level above reality.

Out of shape guys email bombshells until their inbox is full. Meanwhile the bombshells and even the girl next door expect perfect looks, big income and all within 5 miles of course since LA traffic sucks.

Overall people use the site like either the official Californication FWB finder or LA's online trophy wife tryouts. Most speed through with photos and stats like age, distance or income as the only considerations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends is always a nice break from work or the warped egos and distorted aspirations found in online dating.

My Friday nights are not typical. If yours are I can fix that, if not feel free sit at home and pine away over false reality while I head out and try to meet someone with a brain and substance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In early 2013 playing "dodge rocket" in Afghanistan led to getting flown stateside for surgery. I've been back to 100% and my civilian life/career for a year now. In that year I have dated a lot but prefer to be in a great relationship which is hard to find in the LA area.

I don't think The Women of LA are all the same. So do me a favor and stop assuming a veteran must be a staunch conservative, have PTSD or be broke.

Unlike most I wasn't compelled to lie on my profile. The sum of tall, fit and funny multiplied by a good career is a winner in the real world.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. Not one of The 7 Types of women you meet on OK Cupid
2. When it's time to schedule a date you don't get flaky
3. You don't consider veterans an automatic no.
4. You're one of the few not lying on your profile.
5 .You're one of the few not using pictures from 5 years ago.
6. Not stupidly limited to only those who emailed you 1st.
7. Not 10 years older than me.
8. Not severely out of shape.
9. Don't mind dating someone more than 5 miles away. I'll drive.
10. In the long term can live more than 2 minutes from a mall or spa on horse property without complaining.