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41 Acton, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Arabic (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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An authentic country action figure package deal featuring two horses, a big cuddly dog, a guitar, a truck, a big house on a ranch and more. A GI Joe Army National Guard uniform is also included but it hasn't been worn since 2014.

A high achieving, fun loving, hardworking man with a ton of Midwest charm and honesty. I've been called a refreshing change from how many act on OKCupid ♫

Socially liberal, fiscally conservative, educated and highly motivated.

A sapiosexual who believes in chivalry, romance and the golden rule. I'll go the extra mile for those who would for me but don't have a spare second for those who won't.

My parents have been together well over 40 years. My family back in MN is full of veterans who love their family and their country. I'm one good apple that may have landed in CA but still not too far from the tree.

By popular demand I need to answer where is Acton, CA?
1. If I messaged you, I don't mind driving to you.
2. If you don't know without google maps, probably an hour away.
3. If you don't know how to use google maps it will never work because I can't help your acting career.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It’s perfect when it arrives and puts itself in our hands. It hopes we’ve learned something from yesterday." John Wayne.

2015 has been busy. back in college on the Gi Bill, keeping a 4.0 GPA , working full time, working out, keeping up my 4 br house on 3 acres and riding/training those two stunning horses.

Yes I've served in two wars and was wounded. I healed up great and no I'm not a PTSD mess. The truth is veterans volunteer more, earn more and are less likely to be unemployed than a non veteran.

Veterans of Iraq and Afghanistan might be only 1% of the population but we don't suck at life, we live it to the limit and we don't bite so get over it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hard work, fixing, building, maintaining things, cooking, humor and honesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Not from here are you?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music? Anything with good writing, vocals and talent.

Real rock from classic to The Black Keys

Rocking country like Brantley Gilbert or Eric Church.

A mix of folk and country like The Zack Brown Band.

I knew about Chris Stapleton back when he was lead for the Steel Drivers, long before the CMA's with that pop music sissy, Justin Bieber or was it Timberlake?

I also like real classic rock like The Rolling Stones. Even indie rock like The Heavy .

I play guitar so Stevie Ray Vaughn is another obvious influence. Back in H.S. I listened to everything from Garth to NIN so I also like Awolnation

Food: Italian, Sushi, Greek, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more. I can cook it not just eat it.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A Career that I love
2. Paying it forward donating time and money to worthy causes.
3. Outdoors fun fishing, hiking, riding etc
4. A garage full of tools and vehicles.
5. Animals. Two horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback dog
6. Lucchese Boots
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Few actually read these. I only wrote a good profile because I refuse to half ass anything.

Singles are few out by my ranch which means trying LA, the most toxic dating pool in the entire US. I've lived all over the US including NY, the Northwest and I have traveled the world. LA makes dating anywhere else seem easy.

LA online dating is seeing commercial headshots from four score and 50lbs ago while reading demands for a man with the moral fortitude of Nelson Mandela, the comedic timing of Stephen Colbert, the abs of Hugh Jackman, and the hair of Patrick Dempsey all within 2 blocks since traffic sucks.

All the inflated egos, ancient photos and unrealistic expectations are getting old. I used to date anywhere from Santa Monica to Newport but I'm tired of driving hours just to find out they have less going for them than the random 46-48 year olds who buy me drinks when I'm just minding my own at Yard House.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since it's cooling off I've probably got a log in the fireplace while I'm sipping whiskey and doing college homework with my dog next to me. I get it done so Sat morning I can ride.

I'm busy but still have time to date when it's worth it. I'm looking for something real with no desire to waste time on the hookups or gold diggers typical of LA dating.

I just tell that type I'm busy Friday and need to wash and detangle my horses manes and tails.

I could hire a groom to do that but I don't when DIY seems like less maintenance and more fun than time with her.
You should message me if
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If you pique my interest I will reach out. Maybe do the same.

Despite the fact it's 2015 for some outdated reason even ambitious independent women go from ignoring messages from moronic pervs to silently viewing someone else hoping he will write.

Instead of wishing I messaged you, why don't you just message me now?