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40 M Santa Clarita, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:24pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Minnesota born and raised with some time living in NY and overseas. I moved to CA in 2009. Dates say my chivalry is refreshing and other men online get too lewd/forward. <- funny link.

Since 2005 it's been a combination of serving in the reserves part time with a successful full time civilian career. My start in the military was before 9-11 and since then it's included everywhere from a still smoking WTC @9-11 to Iraq and Afghanistan.

I love my career in aerospace and spend my free time on outdoor adventure, fitness, my Horses, my pup ฅʕ••ʔฅ, fast car and motorcycle.<- clips of my furry minions or me hauling ass.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
There are so many acts of selfless kindness available if you want to make the world a better place. After finding a lot of happiness working with my own horses I decided to volunteer with a charity for equestrian therapy for disabled children.

I've experienced opportunity and success in the private and public sector. I'm as grateful as I am proud. However I know there are a lot of veterans in need and do my best to help since I've been downrange myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at most things ending in 'manship like horsemanship, marksmanship and workmanship...

Ok.... After a 49 year old literally asked to "ride the manship" I really need to rewrite this..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Someone once thought I was the stunt rider in Yes Man. Sorry.. not my naked butt weaving through traffic..

The sum of tall, fit and funny multiplied by a good career is a winner in the real world. So unlike most people online I wasn't compelled to lie on my profile.< Click and read the OK Cupid Blog on lies
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A wide variety of music and here are some examples ready to play.

The Black Keys:Brantley Gilbert:Zack Brown Band:The Rolling Stones:Stevie Ray Vaughn:Awolnation

I know my way around my kitchen or to a good restaurant for Italian, sushi, Mexican, French, BBQ and much more.

Shows: Dennis Miller: John Stewart
Those are links to some of their best material ever..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course my family and friends come for things...
1. A Career that I love
2. Giving back like serving in the CA ARNG
3. Outdoors fun Fishing, hiking etc
4. Like any guy my vehicles.
5. A garage full of tools
6. My animals. Horses and a Rhodesian Ridgeback .
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
After trying this site intermittently for 3 years I have come to one conclusion. Everyone is trying to date an unrealistic level above reality. Basically obese broke guys email bombshells until their inbox is full. Meanwhile the bombshells and frequently even the "girl next door" expect a man with perfect looks, big income and of course within 5 miles because LA traffic sucks.

There are two main groups on here. For some it's the official Californication FWB finder and for others LA's online trophy wife tryouts.

Last Saturday at midnight my coupe didn't turn into a pumpkin but that first number on my profile ticked over to 40 . Replies and views have already slowed considerably.

Going out with friends is always a nice break from the warped egos and distorted aspirations found in online dating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday nights are not typical. If yours are I can fix that, if not feel free sit at home and pine away over false reality while I fire up the Maserati or Ducati to go meet someone with a brain and substance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In early 2013 playing "dodge rocket" in Afghanistan led to getting flown stateside for surgery. I've been back to 100% and my civilian life/career for a year now. In that year I have dated a lot but prefer to be in a great relationship which is hard to find in the LA area.

I don't think The Women of LA are all the same. So do me a favor and stop assuming a veteran must be a staunch conservative, have PTSD or be broke.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not flaky and realize emailing someone you find interesting is better than being limited to only those who emailed you.