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30 Carbondale, IL Man


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  • Ages 19-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 23
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Young professional working for SIU, living the dream...

Family is the most important thing to me. I have four siblings and they are the absolute best. Can't imagine life without them.
What I’m doing with my life
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Upward and onward! Outside of the day job, I decided recently I want to spend my evenings reading & writing. So, books. I am trying to write a book. This is simultaneously the most awesome and frustrating thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding something I want to get better at.

"Dare greatly. Sometimes you will fall & get stronger. And sometimes you will succeed."
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a very self-contradictory nature - and it expresses itself in lots of funny little ways. If you get to know me, you will understand. Luckily, most people seem to find this aspect of me to be endearing. Well, the people who still hang out with me at least ;)

On a more serious note, I am what you could call a "humanist." I like people who are good to other people. This actually isn't probs the first thing you would notice about me, but it may be the most important
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the usual eclectic mix. we probably even have a little bit of overlap somewhere, but not too much because that would just be awkward

Seriously though. Love music. I listen to spotify at work and have a fairly large cd and record collection i listen to at home. Yes, record players are awesome. Old vinyl is class.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
chapstick, toothbrush, notebook

Everything else? eh. I'm a simple guy when it gets down to it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living my life the way I want to live it. Although absolute self-determination obviously is impossible (and frankly, would probably be boring, if we want to be real honest about it) I feel most people still err on the side of being the person others want them to be. Its weird, yet often rational, though kinda sucky. I'm out here trying to break the mold. Let's see how well this works!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
curing cancer.

Or just reading a book, listening to a record, and sipping some port. Maybe doing a bit of writing. Probably doing a bit of writing.

In other news, on Friday i slip into a caricature of a 19th century gentleman, plus a fancy gadget or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
yeah...that would be telling, wouldn't it?

Let's talk a bit first, then we'll see :)
You should message me if
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you are looking to meet me or curious and feel like chatting? hell, its up to you to decide why you want to message me. seriously, just go for it though. I do bite sometimes but not super hard :)