When stateside I work at Walmart and the Local Ski area as a Patroller. I am almost finished with my Emergency Management degree. When I graduate I hope to get a job with the Red Cross and continue learning about how different people cope with stress and disasters. Being able to help people through that and see how a community can come together when disaster strikes but hardly talked to each other before it happened is a very powerful experience and I enjoy being part of it.
Some people think I'm a very intense person others think I am the most carefree person in the world, I guess it just depends on who you talk you. I do know that I don't sweat the small stuff. After working in the military and in disaster situations makes it easy to remember what is really important in life.
After answering a bunch of the questions my "personality" is less kind and less old fashioned, I believe I can refute that by saying that I'm not looking for the perfect everybody's happy relationship, relationships are hard work and no two people will agree on everything. The real relationship is how you deal with those disagreements. I rarely yell and rarely get angry, I much rather talk though any disagreements and maybe learn something from the other person. So I like to think I'm at least a little kind and fairly old fashioned in that when you start a relationship I plan on being entirely honest about everything.