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45 Ojai, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:05pm
Relationship Type
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for someone who is joyful, able to be vulnerable and open hearted to let someone in, someone who has protected their sense of child like wonder, which you can see when their eyes light up during a smile.

I recently drove through Big Sur on my way back from visiting family for the holidays. Such beauty and serenity. I look forward to sharing experiences like this with someone special.

I love learning...about myself, about others, about our world. I enjoy being inspired and inspiring others. Be it through a beaming smile, or
telling a tale of something I found fascinating.

I am endlessly curious and I think relationships where both partners share their excitement, energy, joy and wisdom are dynamic and long lasting.

I am Compassionate, Sincere, and Curious
eNFp "the Champion" from Myers-Briggs
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living with grace.... taking time to think and feel about my choices and how they effect me and others and my environment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the magic in the ordinary.
Appreciating... beauty when I see it.
kindess when I hear it.
touch when I feel it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A welcoming energy.
I think people see the gentleman.The calm on the surface if you will...
A man can have manners and kindness and still have passion, creativity and imagination when the time for candles and whispers is nigh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Amelie, Somewhere in Time, The Secret, What the bleep do we know,
Game of Thrones, LOTR, The Hobbit, Wild, Forks over Knives. Movies that enlighten or inspire.

Books: Etiquette for the Renaissance Gentleman, Count of Monte Cristo, Tolkein, Rumi, The Four Agreements, The Mastery of Love, The Name of the Wind...
Shakespeare..... many many more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 Nature... it's beauty and ability to restore our spirit.
2 Friendship
3 Good wholesome organic food and wine
4 Love... both for self and others
5 Imagination
6 Kindness
7 Listening to your inner voice, especially when to break the rules.
8 Inspiration... from books,movies,music...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How amazing a society would be if compassion and kindness
were foremost in our interactions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I envision time together would be full of smiles and warmth, cooking and eating together,exchanging massages,hiking in nature,sharing ideas and experiences,little adventures,going to farmers markets,
museums,wine tasting,watching movies....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think everyone is on a path in life... (I think of it like a forest hiking trail) it is interesting to see where other peoples paths lead and where they overlap mine.
By the way, my path travels across the fallen pine needles, in the shade of the trees where the sunlight projects a world of shadows and imagination, with the scent of the forest upon the wind, and the music of flowing water dancing in the air.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You wish to explore the dance of positive energies that flow between two open and wise souls.
I am at the point where I am comfortable in my own skin. I like the man I have become, someone with integrity,kindness, imagination and wisdom. If these words resonate with you and you are at a similar point in life, then send me a message. =]