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44 F Minneapolis, MN

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Fun, smart, left-leaning? Read on!

I’m looking for a fellow optimist. Someone who believes he matters and would like to share life's journey. (I manage quite well as a solo act, but I would prefer to be part of a duo.)

I’m a socially conscious architect. I consider myself a world citizen first, a U.S. citizen second. I’m a St. Joan of Arc – type Catholic (a feminist who fully supports gay rights). I enjoy being active, especially swimming and biking. I look forward to being a parent, and am confident I will be a great mom. I have a good sense of humor and a positive attitude. I work hard, but also enjoy life.

My hope/expectation is that we are approximately the same age. You enjoy kids and are social justice oriented / civic-minded.

Quite likely you live in Minneapolis or St. Paul proper. (I could imagine living in a rural area or small town someday. Life in suburbia is harder to envision.)

Think we might be a match? Please send me a message. Thanks!
What I’m doing with my life
I seek to make a positive impact. I work as a consultant and also have a small architecture firm. My focus areas are sustainable design and affordable housing.
I’m really good at
I’m good at connecting with people, both children and adults. I'm a creative thinker.
The first things people usually notice about me
People notice that I'm kind. (My playful side and sometimes dry sense of humor can initially be missed by those not paying attention.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hmmm… I’ve been reading a lot of fiction this year, but I would be happy to put the books on the shelf and share some real life adventures. ;-)

In addition to more typical U.S. movies, I enjoy Bollywood. "Lagaan" is great, "Peck on the Cheek" remains my favorite. (No worries, whatsoever, if you've never seen an Indian film.)

I like many types of ethnic food. I enjoy cooking and hosting meals - my menus tend to favor vegetarian options.

While I watch very little t.v., it did play an interesting role in my work life in 2012.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about balance (work-life balance is a personal challenge).
I think about the problems of the world (MPR news junky).
I think about people who have touched my life.
I think about the experience of getting older.
I think about the future.
I think about what’s for dinner.
I think about who you might be (and how to find you!).
On a typical Friday night I am
My nights vary. Friday night swims are great because the pool tends to be quiet. Sometimes I’m out with friends. Sometimes I’m hosting friends at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I prefer to sort the silverware as I load the dishwasher.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 39–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You think we complement one another.
You have a good joke you'd like to share or a burning question you would like to ask.
You're willing to offer some creative/constructive advice regarding my profile.
Thanks for reading all the way through!