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36 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Buddhism, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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having just returned from two years of traveling, i'm really just exploring nyc again. i'm finding all the things i love... and nyc offers so much!!! i'm into the arts and cultural events but also love going to parks and just walking around. eating food is certainly one of the other activities i enjoy most.

so that's what i'm up to now, but here is a peek into who i am for those that are interested...

i spend at least an hour ever day meditating. in fact, i just returned from an intense vipassana meditation experience in burma that very few individuals ever decide to experience. it changed me a lot and my views on the world are also different. i try to look at the world with compassion, generosity, and humility. i try not to be led by desires, although that's impossible for me, so i try to really just be balanced between a working life, social life, family life, spiritual life, and alone time. it's working because my life is peaceful and happy. so, i'm mostly romantically attracted to people that are also happy with themselves, have found that money isn't everything, are givers and share their compassion in a gentle and kind manner. morality is important to me because it guides us to be better people.... and that's what i'm always working on.
What I’m doing with my life
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Loving being in NYC and surrounding myself with loving people... Friends, family and children!

meditating on a daily basis for at least an hour

reading a lot of buddhist philosophy (and literature)

Making sure I am always giving my attention and love to others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Meditating! In fact, I just spent 9 months in Burma while meditating 14 hours a day in silence, vipassana tradition, but not Goenke, I wanted to go learn from the teacher of teachers, straight to the source of wisdom.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm either outgoing or calm... Depends on the energy of the moment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've been reading a lot of poetry... Rumi and Pessoa. Also spiritual or existential literature. But I am always reading 3-4 books at a time, one of which will be about Buddhism, another a book of poetry, and the third something about history (or philosophy)

And I love breaking bad! Watching it now!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
ok, this is weird... what could i actually never do without? well, that's easy to answer. water, food.

my modern life makes me need:
Friends/family (is that two? Nah!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Meaning. God. Life. Universe. Love. Sex. Relationships. Purpose. And then trying to let go of all my attachments.

How to put intimacy into my life and put more love into the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing is typical as I travel...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have experienced a lot. And I'm willing to share it with others. I've overcome a lot and I find my past to be the most beautiful blessing. When I compare myself to great figures in history, most of them stay miserable. I have achieved a lot of peace (still practicing to improve my peacefulness).

Here is what I will admit..

I will see your unhappiness and I will not try to fix you.
You should message me if
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You're interested in living life fully and learning what's deep inside of you. You have cultural interests, moral interests, and an open mind. You can ask questions and answer questions.

And you've seen beyond your own emotions.