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35 M Tauranga, New Zealand

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:28pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Just a guy. Trying to be happy - but it wasn't always so.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as a mental health community support worker. Just started reading the Bible from the beginning. I have a stack of books I want to read including William Blake, the Conference of the Birds, as well as some work literature. In October I am doing an online course on Kierkegaard's philosophy through the University of Copenhagen.
I’m really good at
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Being patient with people, depending on the people. I guess only the ones I care about, and those who work in the service industry because I feel so awkward being served. I'm getting better at staying in the moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Weird accent - I grew up in Hong Kong
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My Favorite Author is Knut Hamsun, and I like all his books. Favorites are 'Mysteries', 'Hunger', and 'Pan'. Also loved the Master and Margerita, Journey to the end of the night, 1984 - went through a big orwell phase when I was a teen, Crime and Punishment.

I'm really into films, Arthouse, Foreign and Documentaries. My fav video store is Video EZY in Ponsonby cause it has a good selection, weekly movies are $1 on Tues + Thurs, and they are open 24 hours. I was a member of Fatso but decided to go back to the video store because I like looking through movies at 3am.

Directors - Akira Kurosawa, Hal Hartley, Truffaut, and Mike Leigh.

Just saw Django Unchained - really cool. I like where Tarantino is going with this. Inglorious also great. So much better than Pulp Fiction but I feel like the audience is still showing up to see the cool rather than the iconic.

TV SHOWs: are Louis Theroux Documentaries, It's always sunny in Philadelphia, and An idiot abroad.

SPORT - it's not in the title but I really like Rugby. I think this is kind of out-of-character so if you hate rugby it doesn't mean you won't like me. My fav Super Rugby team is the chiefs, and of course I support the All Blacks.

Music: I have an account with

Top 10 artists according to in order of # of times listened:

The Presets
Palace Music
Mount Sims
Bogdan Raczynski
DMX Krew
Aphex Twin
Mobb Deep
Bonnie 'Prince' Billy

Food - I like everything. Ethnic food. Food that people have been making for ages. I think Indian is my favorite. Recently I haven't really being eating much and taking loads of caffeine pills.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) A job that means something to me.
2) My friends
3) My 5 senses - I think smell has a lot to do with taste otherwise I could probably go without smell. It might even be an advantage.
4) Thoughts I have - interesting, funny, I have unpleasant ones but they give me my edge
5) Music - I am addicted to music
6) I have a big bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being shipwrecked in the present. The scorching sun. My fellows, and how to avoid their attention.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not much. I'm old. 33 years old is getting on (It's also young but not on Fridays). I used to be a wingman for a friend and go to clubs but otherwise I'm not motivated. DVDs are a good choice, or surfing the net, or making a playlist. I sometimes make my own music but haven't done that for a while. It's more fun with friends, although the end product is usually only good for a laugh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I drive around with an adult human size teddy bear in the boot of my car
You should message me if
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You wanna get it on with me desperately. I prefer Israeli women, Although I don't know any, haven't met any, and don't know why.
Psychotics welcome.