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My New Years Toast
My friends, life is about perception. When we get down to it, how
we choose to see life is how we ultimately color the way in which
we live it.As I drove home today from work, I realized I could see
my life in two completely different ways.
If I was wishing to bad, I could see a 30-40 minute trudge home in traffic to an empty home, pulling a bottle from the cabinet to ease my ever so slightly bruised heart, fallen victim to yet another failed relationship, talk to some voices on the telephone and finally face the long cold night in yet again, an empty bed.
On the other hand, I could look and see that unlike many, I have a job, and it pays well. Theres people there I don't hate. I can go home to my place, thats mine and mine alone, and I only have to share its space with those I choose to. I have food in the cabinets, a tv to watch and friends I can talk to when I need it. I might still feel that pain from things not working out, but then again, I still have enough heart left that I do still feel, and things can affect me still. I haven't yet grown cold like so many others in this world.
In this next year, we'll all have fights that will fade. Events, friends and jobs will come and go and at its core, how we choose to see it and realize it for what it is will dictate the year ahead.
These may not be the best of times, but they're also not the worst of times. They are still good times, may we have many more of them together.
May we come more than we go
~ Rich
If I was wishing to bad, I could see a 30-40 minute trudge home in traffic to an empty home, pulling a bottle from the cabinet to ease my ever so slightly bruised heart, fallen victim to yet another failed relationship, talk to some voices on the telephone and finally face the long cold night in yet again, an empty bed.
On the other hand, I could look and see that unlike many, I have a job, and it pays well. Theres people there I don't hate. I can go home to my place, thats mine and mine alone, and I only have to share its space with those I choose to. I have food in the cabinets, a tv to watch and friends I can talk to when I need it. I might still feel that pain from things not working out, but then again, I still have enough heart left that I do still feel, and things can affect me still. I haven't yet grown cold like so many others in this world.
In this next year, we'll all have fights that will fade. Events, friends and jobs will come and go and at its core, how we choose to see it and realize it for what it is will dictate the year ahead.
These may not be the best of times, but they're also not the worst of times. They are still good times, may we have many more of them together.
May we come more than we go
~ Rich
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