I moved to this area from Richmond, Virginia and I have been living here for 6 years now. I work with people with special needs and honestly feel like I have the best job in the world! I have a five year old daughter so I should definitely get a pass if you ever catch me singing the words to let it go! I'm definitely not trying to jump into anything right away....but I hope to find something that would eventually evolve into a relationship. I genuinely believe in really getting to know a person first....and I think its the safest way to go...after all this is online dating haha! I speak my mind and believe that it is more important than being politically correct. Being honest is so important to me, so while I can not guarantee that we will work out...I can guarantee that I will not waste your time! I do not have a list of requirements, I just kind of know what I like...but the two must are: 1) you're authentic: the scariest thing in the world to me is............(cant tell you, because I may be talking about you!) 2) you're not a Debbie downer: I'm just a naturally positive/everything will work out type of guy. It doesn't mean that they always do, but I prepare for and expect success...and if I fail...oh well, my daughter is always there to tell me how great I am!
By the way, if you do not have a pic, while I’m sure it will be my loss...I still will not respond! ”
What I’m doing with my life
I work with people with developmental disabilities and honestly feel like I have the best job in the world! My job is in Santa Barbara so I spend a lot of time there and I also go to school. Love sports, politics and psychology!
I’m really good at
1)I’m really good at debating all sorts of issues.
3)Calling a spade a spade!
4)And enjoying myself no matter where I’m at. I’m a firm believer
that if you are out and you are not having a good time….you need to
look in the mirror!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and height.
My accent when I talk
And that I’m real versatile in what I can discuss....I can talk
about music, movies, politics, etc.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all music but my favorite is Hip Hop. Some of my favorite shows include the Wire, Game of Thrones, Sopranos, Morning Joe and Special Report.. I like a lot of books, but right now my favorite is Churchill, Hitler and “The Unnecessary War” by Patrick Buchanan.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about my daughter’s future and what
type of person she will grow to be. I also think about how lucky I
am to be able to live in a great state and pursue my career goals.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My friends didn't have to convince me to try online dating....I did
it because I wanted to!
You should message me if
Message me if it’s impossible for you to be anybody but yourself.....because we already have one thing in common!
By the way, I can not see if you like my profile so if you want to let me know you're interested just send me a quick hey! You know y'all women don't have to be as creative as us men when first contacting lol!
Also, if you do not have a pic, while I’m sure it will be my loss...I still will not respond.