Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Not trying to be everyone's cup of tea... But I am someone's shot
Confident, secure, fun outgoing guy looking for friends first and
maybe more. I love to dance, karaoke, watch a band play, concerts,
boating, travel, hiking, movies, cook outs, parties, volunteer,
personal and professional development, working out, Zumba (yes men
do Zumba), bicycling, swimming, walking (I'm in the gym 3 days a
week lets get our sweat on because I'm committed to dropping
We can never stop learning and growing. I make new friends
everywhere I go but I'm looking for that special friend that gets
me and is outgoing and social like I am. Someone to share it all
with and build a future with. If you want to get to know me and
have a great sense of humor say hi and let's take it from there.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Focused on my health goals of building strength, reducing my weight
and being healthy. Hitting the gym 3x per week, riding my bike 5-7
miles a week, walking 5k every week, and watching what I eat has
My divorce was finalized in Feb 2013 so my life has been downsized
in a material way which has been a great life lesson about what's
really important. I'm focused on the relationships and making a
difference for those in my world. Ive found being outward focused
brings me great joy!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at making people laugh, and at helping my friends and
making a difference in my area of the world. I love meeting new
people and seeing how I can help. I recently retook the Myers
Briggs and DISC tests again. Very insightful. In DISC I'm a D, I
and both were pegged at the very top of the chart. In Myers Briggs
I'm a ENTJ on the cusp of ESTJ. Both confirm what I already knew
but its helpful insight into what I'm looking for.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd have to say my smile and my huge.... ahh personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm an avid listener to audio books. It Works well with my fast
paced always on the go lifestyle. Mostly personal and professional
development books but honestly the last fiction I read was the 50
shades of gray trilogy. I just had to know what the big deal was
about! It wasn't well written but it was a great story. I have to
say the concept around the contract was brilliant.
If you read it I'm interested in your opinion. If you didn't I'm
curious why not? Most who sit in judgement of a D/s relationship
dont fully understand its not about power or degridation or pain.
Its about love. Please don't take this as a misogynistic way of
thinking. It's about feminine power and masculine power being
distinctly different and amazing in each way. I long for a woman
who stands comfortably in her feminine power... Ok and is also into
me. Hehehe ;-)
Movies I love Sci-Fi, drama. Action, romantic comedies and
TV: Not much time for it actually but I love the Big Bang Theory, 2
1/2 Men, Shark Tank, How I Met Your Mother and 2 Broke Girls.
Orange is the new black, house of cards, Boss, Breaking Bad, Archer
and others I find on Netflix.
Music I like variety, 80's, 90's to today. Gotta dance and rock
Food: Italian, Mexican, American pub food, sushi and a good steak!
I can cook but I love going out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, friends, family, laughing, inspiration and my iPhone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I actually don't spend a lot of time thinking about this but this
space in my profile needed something.
People with no pictures or just one or two pics in your
profiles!!?!? Why? You're setting yourself up for disappointment
and more rejection than if you put 6-8 pics up. Let them see you
how you are. Not in some glamour shots or some pics from back in
the day. Be yourself!! If you wind up connecting with someone then
it will be honestly.
Those who only have head shots. Yes that's great but where's the
rest of you? Be authentic be you. Let your pics show your
personality. That your having fun. Sorry it's very frustrating for
us on the other end when we finally meet or get a pic. You wind up
pissed because we aren't into you. This just in... men are visual!!
Half might be due to the shock and disappointment which you caused
by not putting your pics out there. It's far better to never hear
from someone than to be let down by false hope again and again. I
am who I am and that's all that I am. Agaggagagaga - Popeye
No body shot or pics no chat. Sorry I've spent to much time with
those I'm mentally into but not physically and I wind up hurting
them which hurts me too. It's in our mutual best interest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually out with a friend or a bunch of friends seeing a band
play, dancing and laughing. Around Indy you will find me at
District Tap, Drakes, Champps, Latitude 39, Ale Emporium, Britton
Tavern, Rick's Boatyard, Cooper's Hawk, Scotty's Brewhouse, Blend
and The Moon Dog Tavern listening to live music and catching up
with friends. :-) Oh and at Tilly's singing karaoke once in a
Sundays I like watching the Colts play, with my friends at the Ale
Emporium in Castleton you can't beat their hermanaki wings!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm comfortable with who I am and more blessed than I need or
deserve. At the same time I'm striving to be better mentally and
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you live with 30 miles of the Keystone Crossing area of Indy or
are considering relocating to Indianapolis.
Please have more than one picture. From many angles and current
ones. Men are visual so this helps. Online dating is a lot like
listening to a radio DJ for a long time and then meeting them in
person, and you say "they dont look like they sound?" Our minds
create what ever it's lacking and it is always optimized for what
our heart wants. When those expectations get to high thats where
Does that make senses? If you're pics are all selfies and you don't
have a couple of body shot photos you're setting yourself up for
rejection. Maybe you're sadomasochistic. I detest hurting
UPDATE: No body shot or multiple pics no chat. Sorry I've spent to
much time with those I'm mentally into and then either get a
picture or meet them to find out I'm not physically interested and
I wind up hurting them which hurts me too. It's in our mutual best
interest. I hate hurting people.
I'm in the gym 3 days a week fighting to loose weight. I want to
live and want someone who will encourage and push me towards my
If you feel making friends is the important first step in a journey
of relationship. If you feel my strange and weird matches up with
your strange and weird.
Since no one reads this far in these profiles!
Definition of sapiosexuality:
1. (n.) A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by
intelligence and its use.
Origins: From the Latin root sapien, wise or intelligent, and Latin
sexualis, relating to the sexes.
Example: As for me it isn't all about a woman's looks and body. I
want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, slightly irreverent
mind. I want someone for whom philosophical and intelligent
discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go
ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone real
that I can reach out and touch appropriately and randomly (maybe
inappropriately with permission of course). Maybe even someone I
can cuddle with. I decided this means that I am sapiosexual. How
Turn on my mind because the body will follow! :-D
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