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MrChrisM

30 / M / gay / Single

Colonia, New Jersey

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am eclectic, inquisitive, and off the rails.

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My Self-Summary

Hi, I'm Chris. I am, and try to be, a well rounded person with interests all over the map. I currently am a working musician and teach piano, direct musicals, and have an active performance schedule. I also am a full time art and antiques dealer which takes up most of my day. When not working, oh wait. That's about all I do! I enjoy hanging out with friends, visiting museums and galleries, going to the theater, playing the piano, trying new things, going for walks, traveling, lying to children, watching documentaries, and learning as much as I can about whatever I can. If you would like to know more just ask. I haven't bitten anyone in years.

What I’m doing with my life

What am I doing with my life? That sounds like my parents! I have a degree in music education and used it to teach in the public schools for about 5 years before realizing that kids are nuts. I left teaching, kept my private piano students and began to sell art and antiques as a hobby. Today I am happy working as my own boss and really earning everything that I get. My work keeps my very busy and my friends and family keep me sane. In the future I would like to use what I have learned so far to continue working smarter rather than working harder.

I’m really good at

I am really good at listening to other people, whether it be a friend, a student, a client, or a colleague. I am also good at noticing fine details and spotting something special. I have also been known to make people smile for no apparent reason.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably the first thing people notice about me is my crazy hair. It sticks strait out of my head. Usually people notice my smile. I am always smiling. Another thing that people first notice about me is that I am not afraid to be myself. As friendly, strange, quirky, and clever as I am, I am not afraid to show it. They really broke the mold when they made me!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite books: I mostly read nonfiction business books but I also like anything by David Sedaris, short stories, and art and antique periodicals.
Favorite Movies: I like Drop Dead Gorgeous, Moonstruck, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, The English Patient, anything with a good story.
Favorite Music: I am a musician and pretty much like anything that isn't rap or about killing, drugs, and loose women. I love jazz standards, pop, oldies, and Puccini operas.
Favorite Food: I pretty much will eat anything. I'm not very fond of spicy things but I enjoy eating with good company accompanied by a friendly conversation.

The six things I could never do without

1) my mind, 2) my friends and family, 3) my glasses (I'm blind as heck without them), 4) my Honda 5) my sense of humor, 6)my drive to go on.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend a lot of time thinking about simple things that happen in life and how they could be better, worse, or just really turned into a crazy situation. I never stop thinking. Maybe that's why I can't sleep at night. I should just stop.

On a typical Friday night I am

On a typical Friday night I am either home, working, practicing the piano, or else I'm hanging out with friends. I don't go to bars unless I'm with friends and then I have a glass of orange juice because I have to drive home. Now if someone else is driving I'll gladly take a cosmopolitan. Just one will do it. (Don't tell anyone, I'm a cheap date)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I can't stand swishy gays. I mean...I love you and all but I really can't date a flamer.

You should message me if

I am a gay 30 year old man who enjoys his life and interests. If you would like to join me in my nutty adventures let me know. I would love to find someone who is interesting, outgoing, sweet, and polite to date and eventually fall head over heals for. I really want someone who is willing to work for a real relationship as much as I am. I could use some romance but let's take one small step at a time.

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