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53 M Ottawa, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Compassionate, socially evolved and involved, intelligent, generous, thoughtful....designer, visual artist. I love to travel, enjoy good food, good friends, music, visual arts and film.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being a father to a precocious pre-teen boy, running my own business, living well, practicing gratitude and trying to find stillness in the chaos.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a great conversationalist and love to socialize. I'm a thoughtful and loyal friend. I'm really good at my job and take pride in my work, but it does not define me. I am an exceptional father. I've also been told I am a great cook. And a few other things that I won't mention here :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, easy smile and ability to make others laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read when I have the time. Some recent memorable Books: The Sisters Brothers, The Orenda. Anything by Joseph Boyden, David Sedaris, Rohinton Mistry, Michael Ondaatje, Cormack McCarthy, etc.

I am a huge fan of music, from traditional Americana to Hip Hop to Jazz. From Lucinda Williams to Sigor Ros.

I am a lover of food but hate the term foodie. I never tire of a night out wining and dining with close friends. I love all things Asian + great wine + craft beer + regional cuisine. I also love to cook and entertain.

I am a big film buff and love everything from foreign cinema to documentaries. I am also a big fan of alternative TV.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son and family.
Nature, especially water, the stuff I drink, paddle on, dive into.
Good friends.
Bicycles, period.
Art, music, literature, film.
Travel, I have a wanderlust.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nothing. It's a skill I will spend a lifetime mastering.
Traveling to the next destination.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for a drink and dinner with friends, or home with my son chillin', watching age-inappropriate movies, making art or playing games, making a mess in the kitchen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Maybe in person, after a few drinks.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You want to know the most private thing I am wiling to admit.