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29 San Diego, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26-39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 16
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Mostly harmless.

Here's a simple description of me: I'm honest, playful and weird. Possibly a bit nerdy. I'm a drinker of whisky and lover of live music. I like who I am and love self-confidence in other people. A little self-respect goes a long way these days.

I like to surround myself with people who aren't afraid to be themselves and I like knowing people from all walks of life. I love open minds. I tend to gravitate toward musicians and artists, but it isn't intentional.

I'm on here looking for interesting new people. Friends first, but open to more. Casual hookups aren't really my thing.

I'm not genuinely physically attracted to someone until I know them a bit; I'm much more attracted to personalities.

Honesty, integrity and accountability are VERY important to me. Having ambitions also earns you major points.

I appreciate proper grammar and spelling - to the point that poor grammar/spelling is a turn-off.

I'm also a very busy person and definitely appreciate patience. 45 - 60 hour work weeks are the norm for me and I technically work for multiple start-ups. But I find ways to make time when it's worth it :]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Using my BA in a career I love.

Experiencing it.

Enjoying it.

Trying to surround myself with positivity and to put it out myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Never checking my messages.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My haircut or my big green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There are way too many parts to this section!

Books: Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark.

Movies: Comedy and horror. And especially a combination of the two.

Some all-time favorite movies: Dead Alive, Wayne's World, the Fifth Element, the Dark Knight, Half Baked, Jurassic Park, This is the End, the Evil Dead trilogy, pretty much anything made by Kevin Smith, Judd Apatow or Trey Parker...

Shows: Futurama, Batman: TAS, The Twilight Zone, The Addams Family, The Munsters, Freaks and Geeks, Star Trek (TOS), Wilfred, South Park, 30 Rock, The IT Crowd, American Horror Story...

Music: Anything from metal, rock and pop to blues, jazz and soul. I'm open-minded when it comes to music. I love to get into it and feel it.

Some all-time favorite artists: Oingo Boingo, Prince, Jack White, Iron Maiden, Cab Calloway, the B-52s, the Police, Portishead, Cold War Kids, Talking Heads, Stevie Wonder, Beck, Caravan Palace...

Food: I enjoy most things that involve beans. Not much of a carnivore aside from delicious birds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, my friends, pets, water, music, evolving.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the universe and everything.

But not really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the company of a close friend or two and/or asleep. I work hard all week!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book, so pretty much anything.
You should message me if
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You don't suck at life. You have ambitions. You can handle the fact that I'm insanely busy. I work at least 45 hours a week (usually more), so I don't have a lot of time on my hands. Getting close to me takes patience and a little effort.

...bonus points if you have an awesome dog.

...or a bunny.