I find myself to be very different from stereotypical males. I'm very open with my feelings, very caring for others, and able to understand peoples emotions and problems. I always look for personality in a girl, never judging her on her looks. Inside is what matters most. However, I do find girls that express there appearance freely to be incredibly attractive. I always dress in "par-the-norm" clothing and any girl who can dress and look uniquely usually catches my eye, such as "goth, emo and punk styles". Strangeness is actually a huge turn on for me and I'm trying to mean that in a non-creeper kind of way. I find interest in people who are different than the norm. I also really find myself attracted to a girl who is kind and caring, someone who has a willingness to help those who can not help themselves. I also would love to meet a girl who is open with here feelings, always able to say whats on her mind and talk through the problems she has. I find myself to be a tad feminine at times, especially when it comes to things I find adorable. Finally, a girl I would love to meet would be one with artistic interests. I'm a cartoonist, yet I find any kind of artistic talent, be it drawing, painting, dancing, singing, or anything similar is very interesting to me. Any of these qualities truly catches my eye when looking for a possible relationship.
I'm also a very strong believer in God, but I do not really fit the mold of average Catholic person. I worship Christ and his followings, but I still accept people even if they are different, be it your sexuality, religion, or beliefs. I do not think down of people who don't believe in what I believe and I try to pass that on to others. I never force my faith on someone who isn't willing to listen. When it comes to a relationship, I would never force my significant other to join me in my beliefs no matter what she herself believes in. I would gladly respect her standings, be it Catholics, Buddhist, Agnostic, or even Atheist, but in return, I would want her to respect my faith as well.
I do have a few turn offs, unfortunately. My biggest is smoking or any kind of "feel-good" drug. A smoke every once in a long time might be an exception, but constant smoking or drug taking automatically get's a "no, thank you" from me. I am comfortable with drinking, but I usually do not myself and do not necessarily need it to have a good time. Also, self-pity can be a bit annoying for me. I carry a strong sense of guilt when I make mistakes, but constantly feeling you mean nothing is false and rather unattractive. It doesn't mean your a bad person and that I won't be your friend, but each person in a relationship should be confident with themselves. Finally, A girl should also not try to be negative, gossipy, or concerned about what others say or what they think of her. She should be free, accepting and confident with herself.
Well, I suppose that's a bit of me in a nutshell! Of course there's much more to me then just things here! If you would like to know more or just be friends, please feel free to message me! If I find something attractive about you, do know I'll usually message you first! Also if I do and you don't feel any connection, PLEASE! Don't be afraid to say so! I'm perfectly ok with being told no. I would rather be told no then you not responding back at all. :) Ricky out! :D