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40 M Boston, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:52pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I don't know how to summarize myself. That's probably a job for others who know me to do. I've been told that personality wise, I'm a pretty good balance of cerebral and emotional. I'm a black sheep from a family of black sheep (and I have seven siblings, so it's quite a flock at that, not to mention I've pretty much lost count of nieces and nephews). I can be a little shy and quiet at times, but can carry on a conversation and have a pretty dry sense of humor. Despite my name on this thing, I'm not actually much of a morning person.
What I’m doing with my life
Here's a teeny-tiny slice of what I'm doing with it:

I'm in a job where I write a lot, and I've found that I sort of like it, so forgive me if I go on for too long.

I'm pretty independent and walk everywhere. I like exploring the city and taking daytrips and checking out other parts of New England. I also like to bicycle places. Oh, and I swim quite a bit, but for exercise, not as transportation.

I've been to Europe a bunch of times and and was even an exchange student in Germany when I was in high school. I've been to a lot of the US. Death Valley was overwhelming, I felt tiny. I saw the bioluminescent bay in Vieques, the water glowed, I was amazed. The journey can be the destination, so I like road trips and long distance rail travel. Once I drove from LA to Tucson, via Manzanar, Death Valley, The Hoover Dam, Grand Canyon, Jerome AZ (where I picked up my sister) and then went on to Tucson (where we met up with my other sister). Another time I took a train (well, two trains) all the way to California, and when I got there and looked around for a few days, I took another one (ok, that was two trains too, but different ones that took a different route) all the way back to Boston. I want to go to the Pacific Northwest someday, but no one will take me. I like to hike too. I like to visit and know a lot about the state parks in Massachusetts because I used to be a state park ranger.

I like taking photos of things. I grew up in a big old house in a suburb north of Boston where there was always lots of free instant film and free instant cameras (and a photographer who worked for the company which made the aforementioned film and cameras who would teach his many kids how to use them). I just got a fancy camera and am trying to figure it out.
I’m really good at
Retaining facts and useless information. I kill at trivia.
Also singing when I think no one is around.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Sirens of Titan, Assassination Vacation, The Wordy Shipmates, Truman, John Adams, The Devil in the White City, Team of Rivals, Dolores Claiborne, The Orphan Master's Son, Old Man River: The Mississippi River in North American History, The Cider House Rules. Anything by Sarah Vowell.

Movies: Schultze Gets the Blues, Romy & Michele's High School Reunion, Singin' in the Rain, Serial Mom, Good Bye Lenin!, Waiting for Guffman, the original Hairspray, The Triplets of Belleville, Little Miss Sunshine, Bagdad Cafe, all of Wes Anderson's stuff.

TV: Malcolm in the Middle, Louie, American Horror Story, 30 Rock, The Inbetweeners, Ja'mie: Private School Girl, Parks and Recreation, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Orange is the New Black, Summer Heights High, Extras, Peep Show, MST3K, Mad Men, Trailer Park Boys, Comedy Bang! Bang! Getting On.

Music: Elliott Smith, Heatmiser, R.E.M., Sufjan Stevens, AM & Shawn Lee, The Mamas and the Papas, The Go-Gos, Grandaddy, The B-52s, Fleetwood Mac, MGMT, Jonathan Richman (with or without the Modern Lovers), ABBA, Mary Lou Lord, Annie Lennox, Air, Beck, Steely Dan, Radiohead, Portishead, Madonna, The Pixies, Sergio Mendes & Brazil '66, Miike Snow, The Smiths, Clive Tanaka, The Shins, Broken Bells. And all that sixties era lounge music I've been listening to lately.

I also like to bake things and experiment with the slow cooker.
The six things I could never do without
A regular swim
A daily walk
Esoteric humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever is in my field of vision. Or on my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm either in watching a movie, baking bread or something or out with friends.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 27–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to say hi.