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40 • M • Boston, MA
I’m looking for
- Gay guys only
- Ages 27–41
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Today – 8:08am
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
I'm in a job where I write a lot, and I've found that I sort of like it, so forgive me if I go on for too long.
I'm pretty independent and walk everywhere. I like exploring the city and taking daytrips and checking out other parts of New England. I also like to bicycle places. Oh, and I swim quite a bit, but for exercise, not as transportation.
I've been to Europe a bunch of times and and was even an exchange student in Germany when I was in high school. I've been to a lot of the US. Death Valley was overwhelming, I felt tiny. I saw the bioluminescent bay in Vieques, the water glowed, I was amazed. The journey can be the destination, so I like road trips and long distance rail travel. I want to go to the Pacific Northwest someday, but no one will take me. I like to hike too. I like to visit and know a lot about the state parks in Massachusetts because I used to be a state park ranger.
I like taking photos of things. I grew up in a big old house in a suburb north of Boston where there was always lots of free instant film and free instant cameras (and a photographer who worked for the company which made the aforementioned film and cameras who would teach his many kids how to use them). I just got a fancy camera and am trying to figure it out.
Also singing when I think no one is around.
Movies: Schultze Gets the Blues, Romy & Michele's High School Reunion, Singin' in the Rain, Serial Mom, Good Bye Lenin!, Waiting for Guffman, the original Hairspray, The Triplets of Belleville, Little Miss Sunshine, Bagdad Cafe, all of Wes Anderson's stuff.
TV: Malcolm in the Middle, Louie, American Horror Story, 30 Rock, The Inbetweeners, Ja'mie: Private School Girl, Parks and Recreation, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Orange is the New Black, Summer Heights High, Extras, Peep Show, MST3K, Mad Men, Trailer Park Boys, Comedy Bang! Bang! Getting On.
Music: Elliott Smith, Heatmiser, R.E.M., Sufjan Stevens, AM & Shawn Lee, The Mamas and the Papas, The Go-Gos, Grandaddy, The B-52s, Fleetwood Mac, MGMT, Jonathan Richman (with or without the Modern Lovers), ABBA, Mary Lou Lord, Annie Lennox, Air, Beck, Steely Dan, Radiohead, Portishead, Madonna, The Pixies, Sergio Mendes & Brazil '66, Miike Snow, The Smiths, Clive Tanaka, The Shins, Broken Bells. And all that sixties era lounge music I've been listening to lately.
I also like to bake things and experiment with the slow cooker.
A regular swim
A daily walk
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