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28 M Deer Park, NY

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  • Ages 21–33
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  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm half Argentinian, half Italian, but I don't really think of it as an interracial thing. I can be reserved just as easily as I can be the raconteur of the conversation. It's hard for me to put on a facade. I don't think I'm quite as prone to false epiphanies so much as I used to be.
What I’m doing with my life
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Graduated from Five Towns college with a performance degree. Nowadays, I'm playing drums in the band MIND OPEN and teaching at a couple of music stores.
When I'm not doing that, I'm either writing down observations of things I find funny or interesting, writing music, or drawing something completely ridiculous. In a nutshell, I don't remain complacent for long. I want to feel like I'm heading somewhere.

This past year, I've been fortunate enough to have recorded drums on a couple of albums, and scored my friend's feature length film. The latter being a completely new experience. I also started performing at some comedy open mics. My attitude is: if you do the things that you really feel like doing, without fear being the inhibitor, you actually learn a lot about yourself and end up changing your reality. The less preconceptions there are, the better. What you're painfully rewarded with is truth.
I’m really good at
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- Beat boxing
- Drawing cartoons.
- foosball
The first things people usually notice about me
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My soft hair and smile, apparently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music wise, I'll always hold NOFX, Led Zeppelin, Björk, and the Pixies dear to my heart. Hell, I'll even go into my soudtrack phase from time to time. But lately it's been every derivative of jazz from 1950 to 1978 that's been doing it for me.

Music Update: I actually dig Phantogram. And Bowie's new song Season of Crime is the shit.

I haven't really been an avid reader as of lately, but my past favorites are: Sirens of Titan, Cat's Cradle, Blue beard, Breakfast of Champions, A New Earth, Psycho-Cybernetics, The Watchman, Hammer of the Gods. Love All the People: the essential Bill Hicks

Movies that hold some serious nostalgic merit are definitely:
Great Expectations, Jurassic Park, Raising Arizona, Fight Club, Blade Runner, The Professional, Christine, Sweet and Lowdown, Heat, Casino

But seriously, I love movies. I still need to catch Frank and Biophilia Live.

Tv shows I've been watching lately: the Knick, Boardwalk Empire, Game of Thrones, Bojack Horseman, the Walking Dead, and the Strain.

Food: if it's a main course or a big breakfast, give me something spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Alone time is essential.
2) Apples and Bananas are the breakfast of champions.
3) My Caravan, Grand Caravan. There's actually a typo on the gate. And don't judge. It's the ideal vehicle for tranporting annoyingly large and unassembled instruments. But I still have my eye on that 96' Impala.
4) Family. In moderation.
5) Music, of course.
6) Peace of mind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get better at a "thing."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing music somewhere, hangin solo at my place, or out with friends.
You should message me if
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You're interested in having a totally fun, egaliterean, un-codependent relationship.