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MrHarper4

34 M Cambridge, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:29am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I grew up in a small town in Vermont, which will always be my hometown and hold a piece of my heart. I work as the relationships manager (more honest name for development director) for a small nonprofit saving our ocean and river ecosystems in Cambridge. The environment has always been important to me, on many levels.

Besides the environment, watercolor painting, reading, and singing bass with Chorus Pro Musica are a huge part of my life and identity. Both of my grandmothers were artists, and with their passing, it became very important to me to use my gifts to honor them. I try to have a diversity of subjects in my paintings... oceans, boats, landscapes, people in landscapes, rivers, scenes from the city, mountains, and my imagination.

I love living in Cambridge, where I can walk to most of my favorite places. I like developing relationships with these places. You may find me at Algiers Cafe, Trident Booksellers Cafe (I love the 2nd floor view), Club Passim, the ICA, the Kendal Theater, Belly Wine Bar, and walking along the Charles after a concert.

I am looking for a woman who is beautiful from the inside and outside, spiritual, loving, curious about many things, funny, and who has similar values to mine. Being in my 30s, I'm also looking forward to having a family someday. Hopefully you see this in your future as well. Mostly, I hope that we can laugh easily together and share all of life's little and big moments.
What I’m doing with my life
I believe I answered most of this above. I am enjoying this late spring and looking forward to performing Bach's Mass in B Minor with my chorus. I am reading Mark Helprin. I am working on a large painting of wildflowers in the tall grasses of a Vermont field. I'm trying to save the oceans, one petition and action at a time. I am enjoying listening to music over tea and thinking about many things.

I am a very positive person and try to put that out there in meaningful and encouraging messages on facebook and in person. I hope my words and art inspire many someday.
I’m really good at
writing, making art, empathizing, understanding people, singing, reading, appreciating others, sharing, loving and learning.
The first things people usually notice about me
is how nice, gentle, and open I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have so many..
Books - War and Peace, Anna Karenina, The Memory of Love, A Book of Memories, Master and Margarita, Generations of Winter, A Winter's Tale, In Sunlight and In Shadow, The Impeachment of Abraham Lincoln, Crime and Punishment, The Wizard of the Crow, Brothers, and many more
Music - Siddhartha (Mexican Band), kent, Cafe Tacvba, Austin Brown, Gustavo Cerati, Niki and the Dove, The Vaccines, Joshua Redman, U2, Sting, Marisa Monte, Carlinhos Brown, Smashing Pumpkins, Hilary Hahn, Maurizio Pollini, First Aid Kit, The Avett Brothers, Mozart, Chopin, Bach, Elgar, Verdi and Gershwin...
Shows - Big Bang Theory, New Girl, Frasier, The Cosby Show, Seinfeld, Bones, Person of Interest, Elementary, Masterpiece Theater
Food - Pasta, Chicken Tikka Masala, pork loin, chocolate cake, soups of various kinds, cheese, and salmon...
The six things I could never do without
laughing
tea
love
my spirituality
friends
learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my art, my beliefs, the people I love, the environment, social justice issues, and discovering how I can better the lives of others.
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies... listening to music, watching movies, hanging out with friends, or just relaxing with a book
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty open about myself. Just ask.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are interested by what you've read, have a big heart, feel romantic and inspired by fall weather, and would be open to some tea or wine with me. I have a weakness for women who sing beautifully, have a sense of style, and go for what they want in life.