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50 Palmdale, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:50pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"I'm 1st generation to the United States, although I was born here, I grew up speaking Dutch. About a year ago I finally settled a 10 year long Divorce and Custody Battle from a Marriage-Relationship that existed only 9 years. It was never my intention to divorce, moreover it wasn't my decision to endure such a tumultuous custody battle. After that I met someone nice and dated her for three years, unfortunately things didn't work out: that ended 2.5 years ago. However I feel that I'm now emotionally healed and available to meet somebody :) It's been about a Year that I've been on Plenty of Fish and have met some fantastic people (and a few not so fantastic ones, of course), and I can't think of a better way to get a new started. I've paid my way through life since the age of 8 (eight years old) ~ on my own at 13, I became self employed, self sufficient, and self educated. Although I came from an abusive home I broke the pattern and became 180 degrees different than my Parent(s). I'm a Father of three children, never lost custody, and am a proud Daddy!! :) "

"I enjoy mostly 70's and 80's music., however, my kids are introducing me to some new stuff too:) . . . I like movies, cooking, researching conspiracy theories, soccer, Beach Camping, (Any Camping) , exploring/hiking, target shooting, playing pool, travel, collecting antique swords/daggers, knife throwing (it's a sport, lol) seeker of truth, and much more. I'm hoping to find someone on here who enjoys good company, conversations about people and relationships, i.e. what makes us tick, likes and dislikes. I'm fascinated by this universe in which we live. I like a good cup of coffee and have a weakness for sweets too ~ so, if we go out on the town, we'll need to be careful what sweets we eat if I'm going to keep up my manly figure ;) "

"I look forward to meeting you and can't wait for us to have some fun!!"

-Arend (Pronounced "Aaron" in English)

Some of my favorite quotes:

"It's like everyone tells a story about themselves inside their own head. Always. All the time. That story makes you what you are. We build ourselves out of that story."

- Patrick Rothfuss, The Name of the Wind

"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone."

-Robin Williams

"Love is Composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."


"If women ran the world we wouldn't have wars, just intense negotiations every 28 days."

-Robin Williams
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a Retired Contractor.
Currently Work (when I want) part time as an Investigator & Inspector.
Continuing Law Study. (As a hobby)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mostly everything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know, I've never asked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Behold A Pale horse, William Cooper)))) Movies: (Just about any) Shows, (Breaking bad, The Walking Dead, Hell On Wheels, Prison Break, Sons Of Anarchy, Orange is The New Black, New Girl, (Yes I said that, lol), Weeds, Get The Gringo, That 70's Show, and.... to many others to list) Music, (Classic Rock, 60's 70's and 80's, Some Country, and yes, even some disco, lol) Food, ( Mexican is at the top of my list but, I like all types of foods) and maybe the taste of your neck ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Eh, I've done without plenty in my life so I don't think this is an issue. lol. I mean, Duh: Food, Water, AIR!!! Then people will say their Kids, phones, blah blah blah... hahahaha
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've been Celibate way to long!! I do hope I remember how, i.e. I hope it's like riding a bike!!! (evil grin) .
You should message me if
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You're a good person that won't smash my heart into the door mat!!

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